Paying a woman to be submissive makes the whole Bdsm phoney.
Originally Posted by firststick
Makes what phoney, exactly? Her enjoyment?
One could say that paying a woman to do anything makes it phoney, but that isn't always the case. And even if she were comfortable with every aspect of this video, this level of S&M is more than a paid submissive would/should reasonably accept from a client on a first date.
Being spit on is actually a fetish for some people.
The slapping is abusive, no doubt about it, from a woman's standpoint. But I have male subs who love it. The bastards better not post an alert on me...
I would NEVER willingly be on the receiving end of a scene like this. This is why I made a mention of the level of trust it
should take in order to endeavor into an appointment of this magnitude. I know my BDSM clients take care to vet me on several platforms, and I would hope she would take the time and vet potential clients as well.