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To say that a provider cannot be a SB is limiting to both providers and SB.

And, further, it is to imply that one person's ideal SB is the only type.

The human continuum of experience is not quantum but flowing. There are few sharp edges. Lots of grey divides.

I'm sure there are some providers that make excellent SB. For the right SD.

I'm not here to define or limit people.

Its up to the individual woman (the owner of the smile, tender touch (and everything else they bring - and yes the vagina), who seeks to be a SB, and the individual man (the owner of the charm, confidence, experience, money and yes, penis) who is seeking to be a SD to each define what THEY want.

Every person has different levels of most of those things - looks, charm, youth, money, experience, confidence, experience.....

why arbitrarily limit two humans experience by telling them that A can't be or do X?

To each his own.

I'm glad to read the good experienced people have had. Learn alot.
Im sad to read about the negative experiences. Still, learn alot.

Peace to all and may you find yours.

I bet most of you that believe this "anyone can be anything" dribble are the same folks that have your kids in soccer leagues where everybody gets a trophy.

I do not believer everyone can be anything, but I certainly believe most people can be a lot more than many others think they can be.

Especially when it comes to something as illegible as "SB". I hear what some here define it to be. There are others who would just as emphatically support other definitions. I have learned a lot from the conversation. One thing is that the Texas definition seems a bit different from the DC incrowded definition. I'm not picking sides--and the two seem 45 degrees off each other, not 180, but there are differences. Another is that I think Whispers' and Jaycee's discussions are the best essence of what it is.

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Looking for a girl to spend some time with. Depending on number of dates and length of dates - pay will be between $2000-$4000 a month, with dinner, gifts and shopping trips offered as extras and will be given regularly; with a guarantee of 12 months (minimum) of seeing you. Not asking for exclusivity. Depending on how dependable you are; after the first 2-3 months I will be more than willing to prepay at beginning of month; however initially it will be paid date to date. While I do guarantee 12 months - that's on the assumption you are well behaved; if at any time I do not like how the situation is turning I will stop seeing you. Be good to me and I'll be more than good to you. I am posting this here so I don't need to post it to each girl that responds to this ISO. Read it and if you think you fit - contact me.

Age requirements: Between 25-43, willing to be flexible based on maturity and how well you take care of yourself; (the closer to 35 the better).

Build: athletic/average body type, if you are more than 20lbs overweight please do not bother contacting - not trying to be mean simply just not what I am attracted to.

Personality: outgoing, likes to have fun, mature, willing to be silly at times. You need to be able to hold a conversation about world affairs, current news, interested in technology, science, enjoys going out.

Appearance: Hair color - does not matter; although I prefer brunettes. You must take good care of yourself - get your hair done regularly, dress classy, get nails done. Chest - Not picky but not interested in completely flat chest - same goes for the butt. If you have children - its understood you may have stretch marks: not a deal breaker.

Location: You must be in OKC; or willing to travel to OKC multiple times a month. If you miss several dates I will simply stop seeing you - not an idle threat. I don't have too much free time so when I want to hang out and relax I expect you to be there. I understand everyone gets sick but that needs to be communicated earlier in the day or the day you get sick and know you will not make it later in the week. We will always communicate days before a date will be set to meet so make sure you keep me advised of any possible changes.

Expectations: Most dates will involve either lunch or dinner, occasionally we'll go to the movies or hang out at other places. If you aren't willing to do these things please do not contact.

I prefer you do not smoke, if you do so - don't do it around me ever; and do not show up to a date smelling like smoke.


Likely will go on a few dates (paid) first before I make a decision on if it will be more of a long term arrangement. Just because I ask you for a date does not mean you are automatically the choice; there will be a selection amongst several girls. You will also not be the only girl I will be seeing on a regular basis, and I may have to cancel dates with you to meet with her - again this will be communicated days before to give you the chance to schedule with someone else.

Do not reply here, PM me. If I don't message you back its probably because I'm busy working and will try to get back to everyone that contacts. Don't message me asking questions if you are not interested or you do not meet the above qualifications - those messages will be deleted.
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Let's discuss...I'm curious what are the thoughts on this. Personally, I do not believe a provider can make a good SB in the long term scenario.

There is a Movie on Lifetime channel this Sat. at 8:00 pm
"Sugar Daddies" I will be at a birthday party but Im going to record this one lol. It should be a good one.

If you want me to say it could be done then yes, it could be.

You see them all the time. Once a sugar baby discussion opens up they come out of the woodwork. "I need a sugar daddy baby" "I am available as a sugar baby" "Now hiring a sugar daddy" They still have the hooker in them.

Then when daddy is away they use the apartment they get as a place to get 200 an hour.

Just like a drug dealer when it comes to easy fast money, a hooker will always hook.


Mindset. That is the reason a hooker can not, will not be a sugar baby. Originally Posted by Gotyour6

Good post- I've found this to be true with strippers too...they get GPS (golden pussy syndrome) because of so many pussy starved American boys chasing them. American girls are just learning the EU tradition of letting someone provide for you while not becoming a whore.

There is a Movie on Lifetime channel this Sat. at 8:00 pm
"Sugar Daddies" I will be at a birthday party but Im going to record this one lol. It should be a good one. Originally Posted by CRISTY-CUPPS

And I am betting it will be all about a billionaire buying a 100,000 car, a penthouse and a private jet.

Hollywood would fuck up a wet dream if it had reality in it.

Most girls watch MTV and see that they can be swept off their feet, they tell the camera that they do not have sex and they get spoiled to just be there.

This is the illusion that people see.

Like a house wife sitting at home watching soap operas and Opra.

After a while they think it is reality and want that for themselves when in fact it ruins a good thing for them.

Like a fat chick on craigslist that wants Mr. GQ with executive plumber skills

American women watch too much fucking TV

There is a Movie on Lifetime ... It should be a good one. Originally Posted by CRISTY-CUPPS

Not holding my breath.

I had met a guy who was a client ending up being a SD well he didn't like to be call that but a special friends who help out and spoil me all the time.. But things got weird he got attached and jealousy got involved and of course he married things with wife didn't work out ... He was a great client it sad how this business can turn out to be a good thing but end up being bad at times especially when you make a connection in making a good friend.. But maybe the next one will be less complicated and more fun and spoiling

You are correct, he was a good client.

That was all

There is a Movie on Lifetime channel this Sat. at 8:00 pm
"Sugar Daddies" I will be at a birthday party but Im going to record this one lol. It should be a good one. Originally Posted by CRISTY-CUPPS

I've read this entire thread and wasn't going to post..but I watched the movie.. It wasn't the best nor worst movie ever.. It had some key points brought up on this thread... Would I like to have some of the things she was given? Yes, I would. Will I get those things? Probably not! Why not you ask? Because, I'm an older (34 years old) BBW companion.. Most if not all SD's want younger smaller SB's...

I did want to say that I'm very sorry for your loss CHISTY-CUPPS!

Thanks!!

Nanette

It is on lifetime right now

I watched the movie and I did not expect what happened, the SD killed a girl during sex so it was not very realistic.

I did meet a client a LONG time ago at the Ritz Carlton in Cleveland Ohio who wanted me to choke him. I did it and it was a unforgettable experience.

The morals police made sure it turned out bad. Just like the TV show the Client made sure all of the guys she met were young and virile.

Were some people really expecting a sane representation? I didn't see it but the ending you describe certainly doesn't surprise me. I have hardly ever seen a reasonable treatment of any sex related topic. The wages of sexual sin must always be death. Every escort eventually becomes a drug addicted miserable spinster unless she repeats and gets herself to a nunnary. All ladies have pimps. Etc., etc.