Sugar Daddy/ Sugar Baby Dating

In my past the sd held the cards. He was the boss that's how it works right? Lol Originally Posted by sexiiladii90

Wrong

I was working a full time, normal job before I ever found the hobby and found myself in two separate sd scenarios that I stumbled into, many years apart.

My first one was actually two years younger than I and we are still friends. He took me all over Europe and skiing in Lake Tahoe. He lives in Vegas. He is a great motivator and all around helpful person to know.

The second one was like winning the lottery, you think it's great and it turns into a nightmare. He was twice my age, and he hired me to help him care for his ailing wife at home. I was a dead broke single mom with nothing. He bought me my car that I still have ( paid for, yeah!), vacationed in Europe after his wife passed, paid for me to have cosmetic surgery and ultimately bought two homes before he passed away suddenly.

Living with him was very depressing. He was always insecure about me leaving him, which I would never do. He refused to marry me, and he waited until almost the bitter end before he put me in his will. ( he put me in his will once and took me out when his family protested). I was his nursemaid, he was the most demanding guy I ever met. I think I cried more tears during those years than I ever did in my life. I was so thankful to him for providing a better life for my child and I, but those strings attached were like nooses sometimes. The morning he passed away, I cried and shook and trembled and let go of so much anxiety and emotional pain when the nun at the hospital led me into a room to see his body for the last time. All I could think of was how grateful I was to him for changing my life for the better and what an amazing friend he had been to me and how I wished he knew how much I loved and appreciated him for it.

Afterward, I sold the homes eventually and downsized everything. I have the car, our dog and some special mementos to save for his memory. I learned that I never wish to marry, that I am finally happy to live on my own. I have a long term boyfriend who keeps me company and I support myself for the first time in my life. My kid gained the most out of it all, got a great education and is a successful college student.

No one is an island, a sugar baby gives a man what he wants and he gives her what she needs. Everyone needs someone to mentor them and helping someone financially is a powerful aphrodisiac. I would not be as well off today and the lessons learned were so important to me. I will always be grateful to them, always. I hope you all find your sb/sd as well.

I have a fetish for older men and even prefer them to be married. I like making them feel young again and appreciate their experiences of life and what knowledge I can learn from them. I tell some of my clients that talk about the skinny perfect girls and how they don't do a good job at body rubs...remember that girl with the hot body and fake boobs...she thinks 40 is old and you are fat because you dont have a ken doll chest... I think your sexy and just because I'm a provider does not mean I'm to stupid to do anything else...I love it because I have a high sex drive and it turns me on to see the power of my amazing touch, and how it makes people euphoric. Even had guys in 40s and 50s shake like a virgin and say they never been touched that way. The most amazing feeling in the world is giving a guy an erection that said he hadn't had one in several years but still liked to be touched. Originally Posted by Cayde1129

You are in the right business!!

I've never had a SD...always wanted one to just fall out the sky to me ;-)

^^^^You shouldn't have any reason not to be able to find a SD....you're beautiful...

I Love this thread! I am a young, single mother I always wanted to find a Amazing Sd that Enjoys hanging out,spending time etc... If any information Please pm me.

Wow, all these hookers looking for a sugar daddy lol

Amazing!!!

Advertise you want steady clients for a discount or something.

It is my believe that a steady client and a sugar baby are different in some ways. One thing that is different is I know her RL name and we can talk and discuss many more things than sex. I have the ability to talk about personal things with her and we can get together for dinner or other social occasions. A sugar baby receives money or gifts that don't involve an envelope on a night stand. Even when we are with other providers we present our selves as S/B and S/D. In our case we do not interfere with each others sex lives or try to limit what the other does. I know she is a provider and she knows I will still be bedding other women. She is some one I can talk with knowing she will understand.

I have been using SA and attempting to find a SB. I don't really enjoy spending money on myself but I would love to enjoy spending time and money on a beautiful young lady (but I am an old man). I am looking for someone who enjoys traveling. It is not as easy to find someone interesting as you think.

Hell I am 74 going on 75. If you get past the looks of you and her together you can have a ball. I know every one looks at that old goat with that young thing. I don't give a fuck we have a fun time together. She is 35 with two children. One child is older and out on his own and she shares custody for the younger child with her ex-husband. That allows her times we can get away for short periods of time. She and I kid about the S/B relationship but we both get some thing out of this. Realize that this is still a pay for sex arrangement but closer than the other client/provider sessions.

I have been using SA and attempting to find a SB. I don't really enjoy spending money on myself but I would love to enjoy spending time and money on a beautiful young lady (but I am an old man). I am looking for someone who enjoys traveling. It is not as easy to find someone interesting as you think. Originally Posted by theotherguy1

You are only as old as you make yourself feel! Does traveling to three different continents count? lol Lived in Seoul, South Korea for 2 yrs though..

You are only as old as you make yourself feel! Does traveling to three different continents count? lol Lived in Seoul, South Korea for 2 yrs though.. Originally Posted by nanette3480

I have done five and a number of islands but I have never been to Seoul.

I"ve always wondered about SB/SD arrangements & how it all worked

I"ve always wondered about SB/SD arrangements & how it all worked Originally Posted by ginger

You DONT get paid by the hour and may not get money every day.

Bet you are thinking this isn't for you.

I mean imagine, going on a date for four hours and you get nothing but a nice dinner and something to wear maybe lol.

how da heck do u make money on here please give me sum advice