Sugar Daddy/ Sugar Baby Dating

This is Diamonds and Tuxedos, a forum for expensive tastes and lavish lifestyles. Glancing at your posts and reviews, it's evident this forum may not be for you. Just an observation.

By the way, an SD who gives his SB 5k a month certainly expects her to be available when he can get away. No I was not a slave. I was treated extremely well. Thank you for your "bright" input though! I'll have to catch that TV show you speak of! Lol

I'm convinced you're only motivation for posting here is to bait others.

Shoo. Originally Posted by Ana Valentina

I am well aware of what D&T is but thank you for your input.

As far as my reviews go I buy and sell commodities.

To me, you are one, I will buy cheap and be happy.
I prefer the chase and/or hunt of back page. It entertains me.
I like to fuck in cheap hotel rooms as well as it turns me on.
I eat at McDonalds sometimes, I wear jeans and T-shirts and I have a cheap pair of sneakers on as I type this. I find them comfortable

Do you know how I know you are full of shit about being a sugar baby now?
Because you think people with money buy nothing but high end shit and they can't get a $50 blow job.

You aren't aware that they seek a thrill. They want to seek someone new, have their heart race as they enter the hotel not knowing who is going to be on the other side and then have a session with the unknown.

That is what I like. It gets me off.

I have refereed a few girls to this site and one thanks me all the time for it.

So spare me your pathetic "Diamonds and Tuxedos " bullshit.

I like older Men , never had A SD before , I don't think I live in a big city were men are plentiful let alone a SD

I think of excess as going the extra mile. I have spent years hearing about normal relationships. About women not taking the time to consider the needs of her husband or boyfriend and of course vise versa. I have seen the lull that befalls these couples when they stop doing all of the little things. This is what I meant by excess. It's that extra phone call. That naughty picture taken randomly. The painting that was worked on for a month to show that he(or she) was always in the forefront of the others thoughts. On her end it is being able to drop everything and go to him at his whim (within reason) and attend his needs. It's that extra thoughtful gift that cost no more than a dollar he picked up because it reminded him of her. Its taking her to the art museum that particular weekend because he knows her favorite artist is in town. None of these things are required. They are not a necessity in a relationship. They are excess. They are going above and beyond. Originally Posted by JayceeRivers

Ummm.....I think all that sounds like a normal HEALTHY relationship. When you both stop doing little things for each other your relationship is in decline. Granted, my first relationship that had a physical side was (unbeknownst to me) a SD/SB arrangement but this mindset has not let me down. Maybe that experience colored my standards and expectations for RW relationships or more likely I have taken my own parents as the model for partnered bliss. Not that I don't agree that is what a SD/SB relationship should be like.....but I feel that should be how all romantically inclined relationships are.

I want to believe the best in people and I have always been particularly defensive of providers for the simple reason that more often than not it seems they are held in a cage of "cannots" They cannot be anything but a provider, They are lying thieves waiting to take advantage of you. Cold hearted money hungry women who care only for their next big cash target. This stigma is a arrow I take to heart every time I see it or hear it. I would like to believe I am a good person. That I understand and even practice the difference when I am a sugar baby and when I am a provider. I don't feel a "money for the hour" itch when I am with a sugar daddy. I want to believe others can doff that cumbersome thought process as well. Originally Posted by JayceeRivers

I completely understand this sentiment. I hate how every provider gets painted with the same broad strokes. Providers are people first and foremost and like people they will behave and react differently in situations depending on who they are. Jaycee also points out that she is able to compartmentalize her times being a provider versus being a SB. Compartmentalization like this can allow a woman to be a wonderful provider and SB. Will the majority of women be able to so this? I have my doubts but I do think the possibility is very real.

But in the back of EVERY man's mind is the knowledge that she is in fact a Performance Artist that has learned that role. The sex with a SB is often a bit awkward at first but when the two connect can surpass many other connections.... Originally Posted by Whispers

That I can also understand. But try looking at it from another perspective. Being a SB has shaped me into a better provider. The ability to deeply care for someone within set boundaries and not venture into territory that is unwanted is something I learned from being a SB. Couldn't the reverse also be true? Sure, it will be more of an uphill battle mentally but you have to see how a lady who is able to cultivate a loyal following but actually caring about her clients (not the service they receive but them as a person) can make the jump?

I've never met a provider that could set aside what she had learned the value of her time could be...... Originally Posted by Whispers

That is your experience so far. If you ever meet Ms. Rivers, or providers that share her intelligence and heart, I think that statement will no longer apply.

Usually the SB who wants more and gives less. Originally Posted by Jimmiwad

In my very limited experience, if it is a great match then the SD is the one who ends up wanting more. Mine starting introducing me to family and proposed before my commitment issues kicked in and I stopped seeing him romantically or accepting any of his help. If the emotional/mental connection is not there I can certainly see how a SB will start to just focus on monetary concerns.

I'd like to close out with a disclaimer. In no way do I think I would currently make a good traditional SB. If a SD can't see me at least five times a week I can't promise monogamy.

I'd like to close out with a disclaimer. In no way do I think I would currently make a good traditional SB. If a SD can't see me at least five times a week I can't promise monogamy. Originally Posted by SA Angel

I doubt you have anything to worry about.

I'm making the transition from escort to SB . I dislike dealing with many men , I prefer one or two long-term friendships . any more tips you can give me ?

Some sugar daddies use ECCIE exclusively as a tool (among others) to screen out providers.If you want to switch from provider to SB it's best to erase all your online provider history, which is not easy. A major appeal of a sugar baby is their inexperience in the world of pay for play and the attendant negative health implications.

I'm making the transition from escort to SB . I dislike dealing with many men , I prefer one or two long-term friendships . any more tips you can give me ? Originally Posted by Baddie_blacc

You are looking for one or two to support you then you are an UTR hooker.

Not a sugar baby.

Stop looking at the money aspect of it and better things will happen.

I like older Men , never had A SD before , I don't think I live in a big city were men are plentiful let alone a SD Originally Posted by Tasty Treat 25

Little Rock, hmmmm .... Ever hear of a guy named Bill Clinton?... honey , you are just his type.

I have been and prefer it.

I have a screwed up mentality. I just want a boob job and a tummy tuck and a man to offer those while we become close great friends. Outside of the bedroom, am quite an amazing woman. I don't think I would ever find a SD on ECCIE, nor go seeking one, as it's a hooker site, so I think its entertaining it comes up so very much in this forum.

I think SD relationships can work, but I have met nothing but flakes, so I still truly believe it's a unicorn concept.

That being said, I also feel like I would be using a man in a weird way, I don't ever want a man to feel like I only want him because he's paying for my big ol boobies to be worked on. I heard it all the time back in my dancing days, and to me I just felt like these women were using these men and had many at one time. That seems kinda unfair. I don't know, I am weird.

I'd probably make a good SD with the right SB. I've met a few ladies I'd consider... a receptionist at a business I frequent .... a waitress at a restaurant .... both single moms, 30-ish, ideal for a mutually beneficial relationship.

Oh, I am fucked up, narcissistic, little man syndrome, insecure, wounded, and everything else. But I am wealthy and I love sex with women. I had a SB for almost 5 years and she initially was driven and I put her through school, bought her a car, food ( refrigerator filling, not only fine dining ), computers, travel expenses for out of town seminars, Christmas gifts for her children, all of it. She was certifiably mentally unstable which made for terrific sex. Off the charts, nasty, boundary expanding, experimental. After all of it, she became lazy and expected all her friends, and me, to take care of her. That sentiment was her overriding life m.o. As it was with her mother. The fruit really didn’t fall far from the tree.

I’d love to find another woman with whom I could do more sexual exploring, indulging, and nasty behavior. I am not extremely refined in the emotional aspects of human relations. I care, but I am selfish. I can’t be there all the time. I’d rather gift as the display of ‘ I love You’.

I peruse all the sex sites and there are few,just a handful, which draw my interest. I want a woman who is at least a 9, 38DDD, mature ( over 45 ), and excelled in all aspects sexual. Unafraid to dive into every scene ( except for two ), bi sexual, and an excellent collection of toys.

I love big tits. Natural ones.

I possess everything essential for an interesting life, yet unfulfilled sexually. I want more.

I could never blame a woman for seeking a SD as I damn sure would if I were in her position. Apartment, car, school, bobbles would be bartered for ( assuming I was beautiful ). I have personally known many gold diggers, and guess what : they found what they were seeking. It’s easier to be lonely in a Mercedes than a Corolla ( although the Corolla may be the best value out there ).

So yea, I am jaded, walking wounded, and sexually addicted to female flesh and adventure. I’m ok with that. Every day is a gift and an opportunity to grow. I am still a work in progress.

well sugar babies are mostly just bargain priced hookers... the guys brag on having bare back sex with them, and spending whole weekends with them for $300 lol

well sugar babies are mostly just bargain priced hookers... the guys brag on having bare back sex with them, and spending whole weekends with them for $300 lol

You have no idea what a sugar baby is

You spend more.

A 300 weekend girl is a whore.
Same as you. They are not a sugar baby.
I don't vacation in Japan with a whore, I dont take them on my boat and I certainly dont bring them to events.

A sugar baby I do