Yeah this is the kind of hilarious drama that led to me never bothering to ask for references when I see a lady from OH2 because honestly, getting verified seems like a waste of time. OH2 serves its purpose with or without verification. Sure, the "mens lounge" might be nice but I suspect its very similar to what I can see here and its a lot easier to get access on this site, frankly.
And for sure, the userbase, especially for the Texas/Austin forums, is pretty much identical.