I was sad about not having ASPD to go to anymore...
Glad we found somewhere new to hang!
- Girl Nexxxt Door
- 01-03-2010, 04:48 AM
I was sad about not having ASPD to go to anymore...
Glad we found somewhere new to hang!
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- Guest022210
- 01-03-2010, 04:57 AM
Me too.Glad to see you here.Nice pic
- Hiney2do
- 01-03-2010, 08:52 AM
I made it!! I am happy to see the migration of people here, I do think this is a clear indication of the outstanding quality of members in Arkansas.
- heresy
- 01-03-2010, 11:09 AM
Change with the times or get left behind.
- willro
- 01-03-2010, 05:59 PM
I liked ASPD a lot, but I'm really liking it here too. The new servers that were mentioned seem to be working well. My transfer speeds are lightening fast this evening.
Oh, and I love the pic Dana. You look very pretty.
Oh, and I love the pic Dana. You look very pretty.
- Girl Nexxxt Door
- 01-04-2010, 02:25 AM
Thanks Lookin4 & Willro...I really felt 29 that day! lol
Dana
Dana
- MrGiz
- 01-04-2010, 02:34 AM
Dana. . . you look M A R V E L O U S !!
I'm looking forward to my first taste , someday soon!
Giz
I'm looking forward to my first taste , someday soon!
Giz
- Guest022210
- 01-04-2010, 10:02 AM
This has nothing to do with Dana,but her mentioning 29 made me think of it and I share it with you now.
Benjamin Franklin, Advice to a Young Man on the Choice of a Mistress (1745).
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June 25, 1745
My dear Friend,
I know of no Medicine fit to diminish the violent natural Inclinations you mention; and if I did, I think I should not communicate it to you. Marriage is the proper Remedy. It is the most natural State of Man, and therefore the State in which you are most likely to find solid Happiness. Your Reasons against entering into it at present, appear to me not well-founded. The circumstantial Advantages you have in View by postponing it, are not only uncertain, but they are small in comparison with that of the Thing itself, the being married and settled. It is the Man and Woman united that make the compleat human Being. Separate, she wants his Force of Body and Strength of Reason; he, her Softness, Sensibility and acute Discernment. Together they are more likely to succeed in the World. A single Man has not nearly the Value he would have in that State of Union. He is an incomplete Animal. He resembles the odd Half of a Pair of Scissars. If you get a prudent healthy Wife, your Industry in your Profession, with her good Economy, will be a Fortune sufficient.
But if you will not take this Counsel, and persist in thinking a Commerce with the Sex inevitable, then I repeat my former Advice, that in all your Amours you should prefer old Women to young ones. You call this a Paradox, and demand my Reasons. They are these:
i. Because as they have more Knowledge of the World and their Minds are better stor'd with Observations, their Conversation is more improving and more lastingly agreable.
2. Because when Women cease to be handsome, they study to be good. To maintain their Influence over Men, they supply the Diminution of Beauty by an Augmentation of Utility. They learn to do a 1000 Services small and great, and are the most tender and useful of all Friends when you are sick. Thus they continue amiable. And hence there is hardly such a thing to be found as an old Woman who is not a good Woman.
3. Because there is no hazard of Children, which irregularly produc'd may be attended with much Inconvenience.
4. Because thro' more Experience, they are more prudent and discreet in conducting an Intrigue to prevent Suspicion. The Commerce with them is therefore safer with regard to your Reputation. And with regard to theirs, if the Affair should happen to be known, considerate People might be rather inclin'd to excuse an old Woman who would kindly take care of a young Man, form his Manners by her good Counsels, and prevent his ruining his Health and Fortune among mercenary Prostitutes.
5. Because in every Animal that walks upright, the Deficiency of the Fluids that fill the Muscles appears first in the highest Part: The Face first grows lank and wrinkled; then the Neck; then the Breast and Arms; the lower Parts continuing to the last as plump as ever: So that covering all above with a Basket, and regarding2 only what is below the Girdle, it is impossible of two Women to know an old from a young one. And as in the dark all Cats are grey, the Pleasure of corporal Enjoyment with an old Woman is at least equal, and frequently superior, every Knack being by Practice capable of Improvement.
6. Because the Sin is less. The debauching a Virgin may be her Ruin, and make her for Life unhappy.
7. Because the Compunction is less. The having made a young Girl miserable may give you frequent bitter Reflections; none of which can attend the making an old Woman happy.
8thly and Lastly They are so grateful!!
Thus much for my Paradox. But still I advise you to marry directly; being sincerely Your affectionate Friend.
Benjamin Franklin, Advice to a Young Man on the Choice of a Mistress (1745).
*
June 25, 1745
My dear Friend,
I know of no Medicine fit to diminish the violent natural Inclinations you mention; and if I did, I think I should not communicate it to you. Marriage is the proper Remedy. It is the most natural State of Man, and therefore the State in which you are most likely to find solid Happiness. Your Reasons against entering into it at present, appear to me not well-founded. The circumstantial Advantages you have in View by postponing it, are not only uncertain, but they are small in comparison with that of the Thing itself, the being married and settled. It is the Man and Woman united that make the compleat human Being. Separate, she wants his Force of Body and Strength of Reason; he, her Softness, Sensibility and acute Discernment. Together they are more likely to succeed in the World. A single Man has not nearly the Value he would have in that State of Union. He is an incomplete Animal. He resembles the odd Half of a Pair of Scissars. If you get a prudent healthy Wife, your Industry in your Profession, with her good Economy, will be a Fortune sufficient.
But if you will not take this Counsel, and persist in thinking a Commerce with the Sex inevitable, then I repeat my former Advice, that in all your Amours you should prefer old Women to young ones. You call this a Paradox, and demand my Reasons. They are these:
i. Because as they have more Knowledge of the World and their Minds are better stor'd with Observations, their Conversation is more improving and more lastingly agreable.
2. Because when Women cease to be handsome, they study to be good. To maintain their Influence over Men, they supply the Diminution of Beauty by an Augmentation of Utility. They learn to do a 1000 Services small and great, and are the most tender and useful of all Friends when you are sick. Thus they continue amiable. And hence there is hardly such a thing to be found as an old Woman who is not a good Woman.
3. Because there is no hazard of Children, which irregularly produc'd may be attended with much Inconvenience.
4. Because thro' more Experience, they are more prudent and discreet in conducting an Intrigue to prevent Suspicion. The Commerce with them is therefore safer with regard to your Reputation. And with regard to theirs, if the Affair should happen to be known, considerate People might be rather inclin'd to excuse an old Woman who would kindly take care of a young Man, form his Manners by her good Counsels, and prevent his ruining his Health and Fortune among mercenary Prostitutes.
5. Because in every Animal that walks upright, the Deficiency of the Fluids that fill the Muscles appears first in the highest Part: The Face first grows lank and wrinkled; then the Neck; then the Breast and Arms; the lower Parts continuing to the last as plump as ever: So that covering all above with a Basket, and regarding2 only what is below the Girdle, it is impossible of two Women to know an old from a young one. And as in the dark all Cats are grey, the Pleasure of corporal Enjoyment with an old Woman is at least equal, and frequently superior, every Knack being by Practice capable of Improvement.
6. Because the Sin is less. The debauching a Virgin may be her Ruin, and make her for Life unhappy.
7. Because the Compunction is less. The having made a young Girl miserable may give you frequent bitter Reflections; none of which can attend the making an old Woman happy.
8thly and Lastly They are so grateful!!
Thus much for my Paradox. But still I advise you to marry directly; being sincerely Your affectionate Friend.
- Randi
- 01-04-2010, 07:22 PM
Christmas, birthday , new years..now I've had to "move" with only my iPhone !! I made it tho!! Good to see all who've made it so far!!
Hugz n kisses Randi
Hugz n kisses Randi
- bluffcityguy
- 01-05-2010, 06:16 AM
- Sonoman
- 01-05-2010, 10:30 AM
BCG, ya know the list is getting longer and the number of days shorter. I've got to fix that problem some how......
- bluffcityguy
- 01-05-2010, 10:35 AM
BCG, ya know the list is getting longer and the number of days shorter. I've got to fix that problem some how...... Originally Posted by SonomanI am only too familiar with that problem, my friend.
Worse, I'm striking names off that list... not because I've seen the ladies in question, but because they've retired before I can get around to them.
Life just ain't fair.
Cheers,
bcg
- mrwishful
- 01-05-2010, 10:48 AM
Looks like I made the right decision on new site.... if Miss Randi is here, then the best is here! Can't wait to meet Dana too! She looks just like the girl next door!
- canoodle
- 01-05-2010, 11:09 AM
I believe it's rolling.....Howdy all. good to see you back here!
- Bimboknocker
- 01-05-2010, 11:42 AM
Wishful, Dana is just like her ads say. Once you get over there, you might just wear a path to next door. She doesn't let the clock bother her, which for me, that is good.