Mutual respect of privacy among other aggravating hobby related things.....

Because of my personal situation I end up hosting at my house... When a provider is at my house there is little they won't know about me if they just bother to look around. Because of that I think turn about is fair play and that a provider should be honest with me. After all you are in my house. There are some who can not be trusted...I am not one of those, so I can understand the hesitation to over share, or even share just a little. But I do prefer a little honesty and forthrightness!

If you are hosting me at your place and don't ask me for my name, I won't ask you for yours. If you ask for mine, I will give it to you, but I expect the same from my provider.

Just saying...

If the real men would come forward, everyone knows that after one session with The Bear the ladies start spilling the beans on thier personal lives. Yep the magic wand intices and ensares the lovelies. The other wannabes just look on in amazement :-).
Didnt realize there are so many surgeons and brokers working part time as entertainers. At least its easy to remember yalls real names, either mystique or barbie...hmmmm
The Bear

I've been having the same kind of experiences. I like a bit of conversation to break the ice but I never ask anything personal and I expect the same. I mean, come on, none of us are stupid, we know what this is all about. Like you said, it's not a dating site, so we don't have to play 20 questions and know everything about each other.

Also, I am NOT your girlfriend, I don't have time to text back and force all day long! It's exhausting to try to keep up with silly texts all day. (I am speaking of one person in particular) As I said before, everyone knows how this site works and what the purpose is, so let's keep it professional. I can't stay in constant contact with you and I can't give you freebies just because "you're good looking and know what you're doing".

Thanks for posting this, I obviously needed to rant a bit, lol!

If the real men would come forward, everyone knows that after one session with The Bear the ladies start spilling the beans on thier personal lives. Yep the magic wand intices and ensares the lovelies. The other wannabes just look on in amazement :-).
Didnt realize there are so many surgeons and brokers working part time as entertainers. At least its easy to remember yalls real names, either mystique or barbie...hmmmm
The Bear Originally Posted by bearlyhere

Or they are just telling you stories that you want to hear.
I find it very interesting that a "surgeon" works as an entertainer and let you in on their real world info!

Ya'll are crazy!! I'm laughing over here. Seriously, both sides have equal needs for privacy. They don't have to be a surgeon and if their name is friggin Boomquisha, give the gal her privacy. Dang. Mutual respect everyone. We are all in this together...

Interesting indeed. With me its the same thing evrytime "Holy Shit! It's you" !! But I still don't ask, "So whats your name?"

There have been MANY times that I've asked someone's name and forgotten. I have people in my phone listed by characteristics and other memorable things about them. Lol or by Eccie handle.

Dating Website?lol I can def Relate Being A provider And like she said I don't like lying But real Names Shouldn't be asked Call us Beautiful,sexy lol etc.

Preach girl Preach! the texts can be exhausting, overwhelming, and frankly obnoxious. If you want to text back and fourth for 3 weeks prior to a pre book app then time is $$$$$> i had one hobbyist who wanted to chat ALot and wasn't going to be in town for another 4 weeks. BUT, he realized that my time is my livelihood sooo... he gave me a 50 percent deposit for a 4hr app. In turn i was more than happy to text him through out the day here and there :-)
Other hobbyist should take note or put there pen and there pocket and stop taking notes! Especially notes in the form of texts and emails to my phone!

Why are we bumping threads from 2013?

Why are we bumping threads from 2013? Originally Posted by lovelyevelyn

IKR? lmao! Im gunna go dig up some of mine

Wait... no. No I'm not.

Why are we bumping threads from 2013? Originally Posted by lovelyevelyn

Guessing since the info is still relevant to today as I have heard dudes do the same stuff, be amazed at what you hear sometimes anymore.

Where is Karla these days. She was by far the best I've ever had. Anyone know?

We are done here!