How does a cop get a real session?

this was posted in the Houston Chronicle

REcording your employer

and it points out some good and bad things of doing so..
its all about the C.Y.A. (Covering Your Ass)

I wouldn't want the risk, but you have to admit, it would be great if they came in for a bdsm session, and you could beat the hell out them. Originally Posted by LiannaBlue

Aaa, ha ha ha ha ha

I am wondering if any providers would willingly take care of a cop. I mean they need sex too. If they were up front and said they were a cop, but not working, would anyone take a chance with him? Or should he lie and make up a fake cover, because he could get in trouble too. Would it make a difference depending on what department he worked for, say in a city a good distance away, or a department that does not usually deal with this type of case, say a game warden? Originally Posted by tim70458

They PAY for it! Just like everybody else...

I had a friend knowingly do sessions with a cop but that didn't end well because he decided after a few sessions he wanted to get her for free and threatened to bust her, pulled his gun on her and all that. So....I wouldn't knowingly take a cop client. Originally Posted by MOCHAakaMOCHA

Ah.. that's when the become the criminal... Just a simple call to the DA's office... Not his department... and it's all over, (all over the TV, his Department,the state,) with but the cryin....for him... His career would be over before the next sunrise..

I wouldn't want the risk, but you have to admit, it would be great if they came in for a bdsm session, and you could beat the hell out them. Originally Posted by LiannaBlue

NOW That right there is funny... !!!!

ooooohhhh noo

What does me being AA have to do with It? wtf? now that was ignorant and rude. Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Yes it was rude and racist which violates the forum rules.

I've unknowingly seen a cop and I freaked out a bit after wards when he put his gold necklace that had a sherrif badge charm on it after we completed our meeting. So no, I wouldn't knowingly do it.

What if a cop ask you he won't do anything unless you sleep with him? What would some of you providers do then?

I was being a smartass by the way.... if anybody was wondering.... lol

Uh huh.......

Wow... Things that make you say hmmm

I had a friend knowingly do sessions with a cop but that didn't end well because he decided after a few sessions he wanted to get her for free and threatened to bust her, pulled his gun on her and all that. So....I wouldn't knowingly take a cop client. Originally Posted by MOCHAakaMOCHA

I knew a guy who was an officer in a very small town and had a 'date'. When his date did not show up, he went the wife he had recently left and when she wouldn't let him in the door, he shot her through the door. He got away with the crime.. Karma got him back... A couple of years later he was found hanging from a tree with a suicide note attached. No one beleaves it was suicide.. no one cares!

For that reason alone, I would not date anyone who had anything to do with LE.

I was chatting with a fella once who was an officer and he wanted a BDSM session. I concidered it as I know that he is human first and he's employment comes second, but I could not do it.

I feel sorry for them.. kind of.. as it's tough on them with all the back stabbing at work and then when they are off duty, they're not treated as a normal human.

Wow Tim. Interesting thread and opinions.

@AngelOK I see no reason to suggest that being LE is not a respectable profession. I for one am thankful for most (not all) of LE activities and appreciate what they do for me as a citizen.

@RM It is sad that there are some that turn to "the dark side"; and frankly I feel they should be punished even more so having betrayed their oath and taking advantage of those they swore to protect

@MOCHA I completely understand you not wanting to see a cop because of your friends experience. That being said, there are more crazy criminals with guns out there on the streets than there are cops. We must all calculate our own risk management and live with the consequences.

@Naomi Your comments smack a bit at a generalization that all cops are bad. Unquestionably, there are bad cops. But to suggest that they all are thugs using the system for their own personal gain is ignorant. You being AA, I would think you would be more sensitive to this sort of behavior. There are good and bad people of all races, religions, sexual preferences, and even professions.

@Spirit13 That's just scary, I would hope no provider is secretly taping us with their saved screening information prepared to use this information against clients who act in any way they disapprove of. There does need to be a level of trust on both sides of the hobby. I (and an honest LE) would more than likely have way more to lose being outed in such a way by a provider, and as it stands right now, the burden of proof and risk heavily ways on the honest hobbyist IMHO.

@ Jackie S You're spot on. It would not matter what profession a client is, they should never "step out of line" as described above. There are degrees in criminality. We all break the law. I break the law almost everyday when I exceed the posted speed limit on my way to work. I choose to do so and accept the responsibilities and the consequences of my actions. Then again, I'm not above taking the law into my own hands if I am the victim of an injustice.

@Tia I can see how that may be considering the line of work and type of people LE have to deal with on a regular basis. I bet there are an equal number who enjoy being dominated though just to relieve themselves of the pressure of being the "responsible" leader/protector. Perhaps Lady Kathy has a few of those clients.

@Tim In a nutshell we're all human and share essentially the same needs and desires. There are varying degrees of good and bad in all of us. Who do you want to be today? Originally Posted by Sergeant

Consider the mind set of a person who devotes 40 hours a week to searching out & hunting down people who commit a crime, and if not actually ruining their lives, at least putting a very large long lasting dent in them. That same person, when off duty, has no problem, and sees no issue committing those same crimes.
Any cop who can rationalize his way out of that can rationalize any action, on or off duty.

A person can't do something on Friday, then spend their Saturday destroying somebody's career, marriage, finances and reputation for doing the same thing, and be OK with it, unless they are a sociopath. At that point, who cares that he''s a cop? He's a sociopath.

Oh yes you go girl there is a cop in Orange County Ca I would love to jump him and be his little slut forever:-)

Nikki

I have dated cops in my personal life and it never turned out well so I wish I would have charged them. However I did have a couple of friends who saw law enforcement. One girl was foolish thinking he had to much to lose. I don't agree he did said he was a cop but didn't want sex just a rub down she never seen him again. I think he was checking her out but she didn't get busted. The other gal saw a federal agent (FBI) now that is exciting:-)

I am wondering if any providers would willingly take care of a cop. I mean they need sex too. If they were up front and said they were a cop, but not working, would anyone take a chance with him? Or should he lie and make up a fake cover, because he could get in trouble too. Would it make a difference depending on what department he worked for, say in a city a good distance away, or a department that does not usually deal with this type of case, say a game warden? Originally Posted by tim70458

I think you're forgetting the most important part (for you) here.... she gets busted, and who does she call to help her out? And if you say no, what kind of trouble is she going to be able to stir up for you?


The point of this thread is that LE <> Provider relationships are like the cold war.

I really hate lying, even white lies, but IF you're really not going to screw her over, and I SURE DO HOPE that you're not, not ever telling her you're a cop robs both of you of the power you could hold over the other.

There are those who are in law enforcement on these boards as active hobbiests. They will never share the secrets if they are legitimate.