Most of my strap-on clients are not necessarily looking to be dominated. Rather, my style is an intimate, sensual GFE experience that just happens to involve several different ways of DOING IT, which sometimes includes a strap-on! I like a slow build and lots of time, especially for newbies and less experienced players. It's so important to be relaxed. When a gentleman books an extended session, I love to start with a soothing bubble bath including sensual play in the water. I also LOVE to eat ass prior to putting things inside of one, as the tongue has a way of relaxing everything and coaxing the sphincters open gently, until it is simply BEGGING to have more inside of it than any tongue can offer! Gentle teasing, going slow, and lots of lube are the keys IMO. It's not my style to shove anything in there as quickly as possible. I'm not on a power trip. This is an incredibly pleasurable way of experiencing sexuality and that's where I'm focused. Comfort, pleasure, safety, and letting the ass I'm penetrating dictate the pace at which we move along. I love to use my tongue, fingers, and handheld toys to open a gentleman up slowly until his ass is ready for more.
When I'm fucking with a strap-on, I love a gentleman with his legs bent, whether he is face down in doggy style or on his back with his legs in the air. I love to use my mouth to kiss and nibble other parts of his body while I'm fucking him, because for me, strap-on play is every bit as sensual as any other type of sex. I think the clients who go buck wild over me really appreciate my sensual style when it comes to strap-on play because they're looking to get fucked but not necessarily to be dominated, forced, or to experience pain in the process. I'm all about seducing the ass sensually and sending you out of this world into pleasure zones you didn't even know existed...
For more experienced players, I'll tend to ask a few questions to try to understand what kind of experience they're looking for. Sometimes I *can* just shove it right in and fuck someone hard if he is experienced and has warmed himself up thoroughly. I enjoy this dynamic also, although I find it's less common amongst my clients. Sometimes I do not need to ask questions because I can usually tell what a particular ass wants / is ready for simply by inserting a few fingers and gauging the response. Asses are generally very good at communicating about what they want and what they are ready for.
Here's a brand new image of me in my favorite new strap-on! Hot off the "press"!
But if I can convince Tori to split the driving with me I actually WOULD like to venture to all those middle-of-nowhere places someday soon. 
DID NOT WORK NOTHING WORKED I BEGGED HER TOOO STOP
...........Man 
what an experience ..I STILL THINK OF HER AND
I MIGHT GIVE HER ANOTHER SHOT......
Ive had another PROVIDER do a couple of SESSIONS in ME ...Always fantastic .....ITS all about what one wants COMMUNICATE with the PROVIDER and hopefully it goes GREAT for you...
