ATF vs other

For me, it always comes down to service. Once tcb is done, if i still feel like it is merely a business call rather than an enjoyable gfe type session, then i write the provider off. Also, performance obviously is a big part of it. If there is a certain type of chemistry and relaxing and enjoyable session that makes me smile for hours after wards, then i may consider that provider my atf.

And yes i still see other providers irregardless. Why would i limit myself when the provider sees other clients regularly too?

Oh gosh guys get a room!
I know who yall are talking about and she seems like a great gal and I like her boobs . Originally Posted by ZarahAdams

Will you come with me too? Actually my initial post was about another girl that I met before I met the one Ed is referring to. I have only been hobbying since Dec 2010 and after 2 rather mediocre dates she was my eye opening experience to what the Hobby can be. Too many girls are too mechanical. Including the one you know about, who is my ATF, there are 2 other girls who make me feel wanted. With one girl I felt she was just killing time till she could see the next guy, who she really wanted to see, and that soured me on the Hobby and even a date with the girl I posted about could not pull me out of my funk. Unless a Sugar Baby deal works out I will return to the Hobby soon and my ATF is the first one I want to see.

I am fairly sure an ATF is one you have seen the other two would be" to do list or bucket list"...just sayin....

Several fems haven't been able to handle this DICK and they get attached. My ATF's are the perfect combo of body, mind and spirit. These 3 will do on ANYONE'S list! Yes, I've only met 1 of the 3. That is correct. Originally Posted by mijo(BFE)

Ok I keep seeing guys referring to their ATF's...so here are some questions..
1.What makes her your ATF?
2.Do you see others if you have an ATF?
3.if answer is no to number 2 than are you missing the opportunity of meeting someone as awesome or more so?

Laides do you have an ATF that if he contacts you he becomes your top proirity? Originally Posted by Irish Vixen

Its the connection you make, the vibe so to speak. Had one ATF where we could almost read each others mind. I guess that would happen after seeing her probably over 50 times.

To answerer you third question when we went our seperate ways, you are right did not realize what I was missing.

Will you come with me too? Actually my initial post was about another girl that I met before I met the one Ed is referring to. I have only been hobbying since Dec 2010 and after 2 rather mediocre dates she was my eye opening experience to what the Hobby can be. Too many girls are too mechanical. Including the one you know about, who is my ATF, there are 2 other girls who make me feel wanted. With one girl I felt she was just killing time till she could see the next guy, who she really wanted to see, and that soured me on the Hobby and even a date with the girl I posted about could not pull me out of my funk. Unless a Sugar Baby deal works out I will return to the Hobby soon and my ATF is the first one I want to see. Originally Posted by FlectiNonFrangi

Well she (the one Ed keeps referring to) must be one hell of a woman. I've heard so many great things about her. I only hope to have a body like that when I'm her age. She has a body that puts most ladies my age to shame. . Sorry for the bad experiences love. Don't quit! There's still hope.

Well she (the one Ed keeps referring to) must be one hell of a woman. I've heard so many great things about her. I only hope to have a body like that when I'm her age. She has a body that puts most ladies my age to shame. . Sorry for the bad experiences love. Don't quit! There's still hope. Originally Posted by ZarahAdams

I wouldn't really call it a bad experience sex wise. My only true bad experience was with a girl I had been PMing with for about 3 months, and we would talk about everything. We finally made a date and she provided NOTHING. The only reason that I didn't write a NO review was because she claimed to be best friends with one of my ATFs and they were going to be doing doubles, and I had promised not to write a review at the beginning. I told the ATF and she said she would never talk to her again, and I really believe she kept her word. Not posting a review did not stop me from costing her a lot of business. You don't rip off one of the most vocal guys in Oklahoma without him finding a way to pay her back. Get this, as I was leaving totally disgusted, she had the nerve to ask if I would be one of her regulars. I didn't make a scene because I figured this had to be a Pimps Slave and he told her to do this. I wish her no ill will, but that Pimp made a huge mistake that night, because I have taken money out of his filthy hands. One of my many Provider OKs is from her.

On the lighter side, yes the ATF is very special. She really doesn't need the money, and she is doing this because she wants to. We always have lunch OTC before the date, and we always have 2 hour dates. We also just meet for luncheon dates OTC. She sets a standard that is very hard for others to reach, because she makes a man feel so wanted.

What makes my ATF's my ATF's is the fact that they treat me like a person and I treat them like a person. While we acknowledge the core facts of why we're meeting we don't make it just about that.

I currently have 2 ATF's and one retired ATF. The 2 current ATF's satisfy a side of me that I didn't know existed. They both like to be dominated; nothing super rough, they both like to be spanked, have their hair pulled, tits slapped, and light choking. BCD is outstanding with both of them. What makes both of them ATF's is before and after BCD. They're both smart, funny, and we have a lot of common interests. Our visits always run long because we're too busy flapping our gums usually.

My retired ATF no one will ever be able to hold a candle to her. Not only was BCD always amazing, the emotional bond that we created is very special to me. The first time we saw each other there was an instant connection. We like a lot of the same movies, tv shows, books, and music. One band in particular we're both fanatical over. I'll never forget how we were so busy talking during our first visit, which I had booked for 90 minutes, we ran out of time for BCD! Ended up rescheduling for later that day.

Slowly she and I formed a friendship that I value highly to this day. While she provided she gave me a lot of extra perks including a free session every year on my birthday (A tradition that continues. She retired almost a year ago and she came over to my place and slept with me on my birthday, a tradition she says will happen for the rest of my life so long as we're both single). I in turn she claims I gave her something more valuable than anything-friendship. We would often talk about how solitary the life of a provider can be and she appreciated how I would listen to her and not judge or try to save her. We even traveled together to go see said favorite band play. That 3 day trip really cemented the friendship. There was no BCD at all and it never occurred to either of us. She moved to San Francisco when she retired but we talk and/or text almost every day. She will always be my friend.

Jhurt1968,

That summed it up very we'll. I think finding an ATF is not for everyone in this hobby. Yet if you do find one, keep her for as long as you can.

Well she (the one Ed keeps referring to) must be one hell of a woman. I've heard so many great things about her. I only hope to have a body like that when I'm her age. She has a body that puts most ladies my age to shame. . Sorry for the bad experiences love. Don't quit! There's still hope. Originally Posted by ZarahAdams

I'll let you know later if she is still my ATF....you never know!!

I've only had one ATF. She's not only beautiful and her personality top notch, but she makes the illusion of passion (IOP) seem like reality. I have to keep reading her reviews to keep myself grounded and not fall "in love" with this woman because in all her reviews the guys emphasize her ability to create an IOP. Far too many providers either don't know how to do this...or they just don't care.

Yes, I only see my ATF. Why see anybody else that can't do for me what she can. I've been in the hobby since 1997.

Everybody on the Board knows I see just one Lady. This has been going on for more than two years, I have long since lost count how many times we have been BCD. And other places as well.

We are probably as close to being a couple a s a Provider and Client can be. I absolutly love being with her. And, if she does not love being with me, she is the best damned Actress-Hooker on the Planet. Which, she just might be.

But I don't care. I do this for one reason, its a hell of a lot of fun. I am not looking for a soul mate, a wife, or even a girl friend. What I am looking for is exactly what Sarah gives me. She makes me feel like a man.

And before you all give me the shit about being in love, save your breath. I am under no dillusions what so ever. I know that if I did not compensate Sarah handsomely for her time with me, none of this would exist. She is a hot 39 year old MILF, I am a 65 year old guy who while not that bad, sure isn't someone she would want to spend this much time with if it were not for the generous donations she recieves.

But that is what keeps it all in perspective. We are having the time of our lives, and it will continue untill we grow tired of each other, or I go broke.

Jackie S

I totally relate! I won't "give you any shit" about being in love. Whether you love her or not, I think boundries can be maintained if both parties agree to maintain limits. Glad to see you found somone to relate to!