Reminder.... especially new guys....

Dick slaps are free.......ijs

I have pride issues... I'd rather earn it and KEEP everything. Originally Posted by Eva Damita

You would be the kind that definitely would not take advantage of anyone.
Very admirable quality, the world needs more like you.
But sometimes too much pride isn’t good either.

You would be the kind that definitely would not take advantage of anyone.
Very admirable quality, the world needs more like you.
But sometimes too much pride isn’t good either. Originally Posted by Chico Malo

Very true...

And thank you for your kind words!

Pretty sure there's no providers that I can tell, "I will gladly pay you Tuesday for a session today."

Too lazy to make the hamburger a puss. Though, recent threads would suggest some of them around here already look like this.

I think every guy knows they shouldn't advance money, I think the problem is when the dick starts rationalizing with the brain. Here's another tip for newbs, anytime you feel like you want to make an advance for services that will not be the taking place at the time of exchange, slap yourself. Slap yourself in the dick, as hard as possible, right on the tip. That's all. Originally Posted by DarkeyKong

Better yet. Just find a girl who will fuck you now and give her the money, instead.

"Hi <insert name of provider>, I'd like to <insert activities or request> for X number of hours.

If she says, "give me X dollars now, and I'll <insert verb> you for a quicky today and again next week."

Move on to another provider who wants to earn.

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same story but mine is 4years now been waiting thing is if she had paid a something she have it all most paid off LOL
we are no longer friends I had to end the friendship
I knew I will never see it again / but I do like to remind her every now n then just to see what story she can come up with lol
she has the best BULL SHIT LINES ... i call this SCAMMER

It doesn't only go for guys. I've loaned out money to another provider several times... everytime I might as well have given it away. I did so yesterday as a matter or fact, so someone could rent a room... told her I was spending out of my own rent money and she PROMISED she had a session coming and would pay me back that same night. Nada.

These people aren't your friends. They are users. I am saying no from now on. No exceptions. Originally Posted by KittyLamour

It doesn't only go for guys. I've loaned out money to another provider several times... everytime I might as well have given it away. I did so yesterday as a matter or fact, so someone could rent a room... told her I was spending out of my own rent money and she PROMISED she had a session coming and would pay me back that same night. Nada.

These people aren't your friends. They are users. I am saying no from now on. No exceptions. Originally Posted by KittyLamour

There's a big difference between a hand-up and hand-out
I've learned to differentiate which is which in a persons character.
To the ones that are obvious hustlers.

"These people aren't your friends. They are users. I am saying no from now on. No exceptions."

There's a big difference between a hand-up and hand-out
I've learned to differentiate which is which in a persons character.
To the ones that are obvious hustlers.

"These people aren't your friends. They are users. I am saying no from now on. No exceptions." Originally Posted by Chico Malo

Yep, a lesson I learned the hard way from people in my RL. Never again.

I think every guy knows they shouldn't advance money, I think the problem is when the dick starts rationalizing with the brain. Here's another tip for newbs, anytime you feel like you want to make an advance for services that will not be the taking place at the time of exchange, slap yourself. Slap yourself in the dick, as hard as possible, right on the tip. That's all. Originally Posted by DarkeyKong

Lmao!!!! You killing me DK

in general I agree with treating it as fun money and/or money to your kids. do not count on being paid back.

do not lend out your mortgage pmt

on the other hand, I have more debts honored than lost.

call me goofy, but I truly believe there are lots of ladies on here that honor debts, problem is you have to trust them first. Originally Posted by txman123

Actually, many of them will pay you back. However, you need to get to know them first. Sometimes they are legitimately short and get back on their feet, and appreciate your help.

Others, sure, it is a donation. Try to at least get a naked selfie from them.

i loaned out money before... learned my lesson... all well

me learn from our mistake for sure