Something Positive

I'm pretty much starting this after I get home from this vacation and not waiting for new years. I kinda follow Wakeup's take on goals. I set them when I need to set them, not when Jan 1 comes around.

But the two things I want to accomplish next year is to quit drinking and get into the elite waves in obstacle course racing. Winter is always such a pain in the ass for both of those... Training for OCRs and when you're always inside it's too tempting to not drink.

If you're comfortable with who you are & where your life is, I'm happy for you! Don't change for a single soul! You seem like a real optimistic fella! Originally Posted by Kat VonDee

I'm at the union of optimism +realty

nothing about comfort/negative, just how things work

dont change for anyone leads to a lonely life.

dont change for anyone leads to a lonely life. Originally Posted by timmystool

Changing for someone usually leads to misery and unhappiness.
Agreeing to walk up the same path with someone is not "changing", it's accepting.

Changing for someone usually leads to misery and unhappiness.
Agreeing to walk up the same path with someone is not "changing", it's accepting. Originally Posted by Unique_Carpenter

depends
i didnt say totally change, but you gotta be willing to compromise, etc
saying
DONT CHANGE, well that's just a recipe for lonely life