Have we forgotten ?

Very good post.. I like the responses so far

It's all oxytocin's fault. That whore-moan has been making us fall in love since the beginning of time.

"Love happens" anywhere, anytime, all the time, even here.
Then, "Shit happens". Anywhere, anytime, all the time, even here.

I made the mistake of dating a client and he went batsh*t crazy on me! I HATE HATE cybersex, phone sex and sexting and he got upset when I refused to engage in those things. He lives in Maine and I live in Upper Manhattan. It got to the point where I cut him off because he was spazzing out on me everytime we spoke and when I moved on, he started saying, "I miss you." My response?

Its happened here...Provider and client dating and marrying.
Kinda funny how it's backwards here vs. traditional dating: first time you meet, you fuck each others brains out. Maybe several sessions later, you talk about meeting off the clock. Then, y'all find out that maybe a relationship may not work.

Then what? Back to fucking each other's brains out...

The subject of Providers Vs "Civvie: women comes up every 6 to 18 months or so as the Hobnbyist community turns over or adds newer active hobbyists.

There is a generational shift at work now too I think. I came from the "hippy" age when the societal norms shifted from the restrained era of the 1950s (and mid-'60s) and gave way to the "Free Love" era of the late 1960s and the sexual revolution that came with the development of birth control pills. P-F-P sex was still considered "dirty" by older folks and pathetic by the free loving hippy types. (myself included back then). Now we have the accepted societal concepts of friends-with-benefits and the even more casual hook-up. No wonder there are millennial who are confused about real-world vs hobby-world relationships . . .and where to look for each one.