Making Strap On Play Easier

I think the secret really is finding the right position. To me it is a very submissive thing and honestly it shouldn't be too much work for her. I find that on a bed on my knees works best assuming the bed is not too high. I pull my knees under myself to lower my ass to the right position for her. Once you are in a spot where ass and strap on are at the same level you should be pushing into her thrusts so she doesn't have to work so hard at it. After a little while, assuming she really enjoys it, she's really so into it she's forgotten it's work.

Another thing you can try with strap on play is combine it with rope play. It doesn't have to be as complex as the picture below, but if you can get some rope to grab. The sub can be quickly moved to where ever you need him so it's easier on you. You can even guide his motion to let you just stand there an enjoy the scene...

I find that the same position works best for me. Somehow I find it easier to relax there--a key to this sort of activity. Also, on my back with a small pillow supporting and raising the area in question, with legs wrapped around my partner.

This thread makes me think it's more common than I would have thought.
How common is it? Do guys seek out providers that cater to this or is it part of most provider's repertoire?

I am sure that this is much more common than sone would believe. Just look at the number and variety of strap ons available for purchase. Don't know of this site supports polls but if it does someone with some technical skills should poll the readers.

I'll give it a shot...

There... new poll up. That wasn't too hard.

Thanks for putting the poll up. It will be interesting to see the reults.

After reading this entire thread I have only one thing to contribute:

I am sooooo horny!

KKA

This is the best harness I have ever had! Notice the four adjustable straps, two around my thighs....and never, ever buy elastic straps! Spending a little more money here makes a big differance!
I have also recently upgraded to a realistic silicone dong...love it!

KlassyKelliAnn --ME TOO!!!!

Tiffany--looks like mine! {I am next gonna buy a vibrating strap on}

lol i need one of those

KlassyKelliAnn --ME TOO!!!!

Tiffany--looks like mine! {I am next gonna buy a vibrating strap on} Originally Posted by DallasRain

As I was reading through the posts I kept thinking "Where is Dallas". Well, of course you didn't disappoint. I knew you would make it to this thread.

Do any of you ladies wear a bullet or butterfly under your harness so that you're being pleasured while taming your sub with your strap on?

After reading this entire thread I have only one thing to contribute:

I am sooooo horny!

KKA Originally Posted by KlassyKelliAnn

This is the best harness I have ever had! Notice the four adjustable straps, two around my thighs....and never, ever buy elastic straps! Spending a little more money here makes a big differance!
I have also recently upgraded to a realistic silicone dong...love it!

Originally Posted by Tiffany Cums

KlassyKelliAnn --ME TOO!!!!

Tiffany--looks like mine! {I am next gonna buy a vibrating strap on} Originally Posted by DallasRain

I'd love to be tamed by you guys...at the same time.

wooohooo charles---great idea...sttrap on parties!!!!!

quote--As I was reading through the posts I kept thinking "Where is Dallas". Well, of course you didn't disappoint. I knew you would make it to this thread.

lol--baby you knew I would jump in!!

I am thinking about buying a vibrating strap on.....anyone ever use one??