What to do if you realize you know the provider?

Oh no!!!

I would freak out!!! Terrifying.

There is a review on here where when the door opened it was the guys ex wife.
Originally Posted by RickForFun

Got a link?
I'd luv to read that, lol

Last year I ran across a girl on here who had worked for me the summer before, and had become a provider. I chose to NOT see her but one of my buddies saw her and wrote a review.

There is a review on here where when the door opened it was the guys ex wife.
Originally Posted by RickForFun

Do you have a link to it? (It would be an interesting read!)

I've always been terrified of the idea of ending up with one of my former students from my teaching days. I was such a 'straight arrow' back then in my approach to teaching & dealing with my students. Besides, they were only kids back then. The idea gets to me much more than if I banged one of my former associates or subordinates from my military career.

However... recently I was enjoying a great session with a very popular non-masseuse; and while talking I realized that she was the same age as my oldest daughter & knew her all the way from middle school through high school. Then I realized that I had taken my daughter to her house several times during those years... and that the provider had been to our house several times, as well, including an overnighter or two.

I'd never taken notice of her back then, but she sure grew up to be HOT and great fun in a session. I've seen her twice, but have kind of felt gun-shy since then. She didn't seem to remember me, but I'm kind of turned on & repulsed at the same time with the idea of seeing her again.

What do you guys think?

a few years ago I received a P411 request from a guy who's name sounded very familiar then he sent a physical description of himself since he wanted me to know he was disabled and in a wheelchair. Then it clicked where I knew him from. He was my daughter's high school counselor. She had been out of school for a few years and he wouldn't have known who I was but I couldn't get passed knowing it was someone my daughter knew so I didn't book him.
I was "booked" and that's all he knew. No need to let him know I knew who he was in his real life etc.

Ive seen a hobbyist at the grocery store and paid it no mind just kept going...we all have our private lives.... Originally Posted by Brandee69

What would you have done if he came over to you and started a conversation with you pretending he had never met you before? Would you be open to dating a guy outside the hobby that you had already met inside the hobby?

I've always been terrified of the idea of ending up with one of my former students from my teaching days. I was such a 'straight arrow' back then in my approach to teaching & dealing with my students. Besides, they were only kids back then. The idea gets to me much more than if I banged one of my former associates or subordinates from my military career.

However... recently I was enjoying a great session with a very popular non-masseuse; and while talking I realized that she was the same age as my oldest daughter & knew her all the way from middle school through high school. Then I realized that I had taken my daughter to her house several times during those years... and that the provider had been to our house several times, as well, including an overnighter or two.

I'd never taken notice of her back then, but she sure grew up to be HOT and great fun in a session. I've seen her twice, but have kind of felt gun-shy since then. She didn't seem to remember me, but I'm kind of turned on & repulsed at the same time with the idea of seeing her again.

What do you guys think? Originally Posted by HeatMissile

I just wish I had the opportunity to do this. I like the thought of being
turned on & repulsed at the same time. When you've been doing the hobby for a long time there are only so many new things you can try. I'd ask her to wear the same kind of pajamas she use to wear on her sleep overs.

I just wish I had the opportunity to do this. I like the thought of being
turned on & repulsed at the same time. When you've been doing the hobby for a long time there are only so many new things you can try. I'd ask her to wear the same kind of pajamas she use to wear on her sleep overs. Originally Posted by atf searcher

Yeah, but the thing is that I don't remember her from back then... she was just another kid in the house.

had a utr provider outcall and we were chatting and she looks at a photo on the wall and notices my sons picture. asked if I was his dad and proceeds to tell me the crush she had on my boy in hs. I felt like a big perv but went on with the appointment. she is a firecracker and still seeing her to date.

Actually, a situation like this made me rethink possibilities. I had driven that babysitter home so many times. She knew who I was and I knew her. I felt old and young at the same time. Just not $10 an hour.

I was visiting a provider and, at the end of the session, as we were casually talking we figured out that we both went to the same conservative private church-related college and that we both grew up in the same conservative denomination. Messed with my head a little but I'll probably see her again.

I had a funny situation happen to me a few years back. I had only seen a few providers at the time and I live in an area with fairly low population. I arranged a date with a girl off BP and I know you're not going to believe this but....the pictures were not really the provider! I know right?

She was very cute and young however and looked vaguely familiar but I was thinking she may just remind me of an actress or other celebrity. We carried on with the date and after about an hour and a few orgasms apiece she casually asked me "Didn't you use to date my sister?" Holy Fucking Shit! I about had a heart attack! I did date her sister for a couple of months in college but this girl was about 10 years younger than her sister so she would have been about 9 yrs. old at the time.

I asked who her sister was and had the presence of mind to deny ever knowing her. Luckily she did not remember my name and we do not know any people in common that I am aware of. Her sister died in a car wreck a few years after we broke up so I feel fairly secure that she can not track me down but I will not be seeing her again. This also the last time I arranged a date on BP in my local area. That's when shit got real for me and I joined P411 and ECCIE and started researching like crazy!

I've always been terrified of the idea of ending up with one of my former students from my teaching days. I was such a 'straight arrow' back then in my approach to teaching & dealing with my students. Besides, they were only kids back then. The idea gets to me much more than if I banged one of my former associates or subordinates from my military career.

However... recently I was enjoying a great session with a very popular non-masseuse; and while talking I realized that she was the same age as my oldest daughter & knew her all the way from middle school through high school. Then I realized that I had taken my daughter to her house several times during those years... and that the provider had been to our house several times, as well, including an overnighter or two.

I'd never taken notice of her back then, but she sure grew up to be HOT and great fun in a session. I've seen her twice, but have kind of felt gun-shy since then. She didn't seem to remember me, but I'm kind of turned on & repulsed at the same time with the idea of seeing her again.

What do you guys think? Originally Posted by HeatMissile

There are plenty of teachers banging their students while they are still students. Not a week goes by without a new story. Mostly women too. I wonder if any of them are providers, past or future.