RS do not let them get to you. when all said and done it will come down to how many yes reviews you have. some might makes some observations rather they be good or bad. a lot of it will depend on their personal preference. you will get the shit talkers on here and the bandwagon people. any one that has been around for a while can see right through it and will take it with a grain of salt. another thing you have to watch is some will try to egg you on to get you to blow up. to them it is a game. forms are tough at times due to the written word being misinterpreted at times. it comes down to a persons perception on how they read it. honestly this whole hair thing, i could honestly care less. the way i viewed it is he made and observation. put it out there so others would know. then you explained why it was that way. to me it was good enough and done and over with.
now was his observation a bad thing? his post might not have been attended that way. in some senses if he did not mention that and you did get some one that came to see you that was strongly against hair. now you are looking at a no review and the person might not be nice about it. most things are a double edge sword. from what he shared, if i were to come see you and i like clean shaved. well i would probably ask before hand in a polite manner if you were clean shaved or not. which would cut back on any misunderstandings or potential bad reviews. i understand what had followed with comments from others is what would really have set you off. but like i said you have some on here that will talk shit or try to stir the pot if they see they can. mostly just to get a little excitement. also like i said previously the ones who have been around a while can see right through it when they start doing that. it all comes down to your yes reviews. the rest is just information for the guys to know to see if it falls in to their preference or not. if they are really interested and you might have some thing or do something out of their preference, then they know to ask or not to ask from that information.
the biggest thing is do not let them egg you on. if you go down that path it can hurt you more in the long run than help. most times if they try and fail and keep trying. well they will end up looking like and idiot and you will still remain looking like a professional. you seem like a great girl. i am glad to see you posting and being active on the boards. that will carry a lot of weight with some around here compared to the ones who never post. AJ is a great resource of knowledge. i would recommend talking to her and taking her advice. i think she is an absolute sweetheart too
. those are just some honest thoughts.