ok...i really want to try to be with a lady...

Ok...I volunteer!

I see this as my civic duty...& I won't charge anyone a dime. ;-)

You, me & Tori

I've turned lots of girls out (civilian and provider) and will gladly take charge. I think fastcar once joked about me being like a sports announcer calling out plays...or something along those lines. As a swinger, my personal preference is parties of 3 or more. I don't even know what to call myself as I don't interact with women alone...there has to be a man involved. Tri????

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Finding someone who is intuitive to their lover(s) is key. Non-mechanical and can be in the moment. I totally recommend that you dive in!

I don't even know what to call myself as I don't interact with women alone...there has to be a man involved. Tri???? Originally Posted by Ari816

Heteroflexible?

Find a friend or go to a swinger party, Adult Myspace I think its called alot of fun and theres always couples on there looking.

thanks for all great advice and offers! I am a bit overwhelmed!

I want to go to some kind of swingers party with classy people...with a guy or girl and guy that I have met in advance
sweetcountrygirl......you seem so cool and nice.....I would love to go hang out somewhere on a weekend nite and get to know each other
I would love to do a 3 or 4 way I just want someone else to plan it!
and VK you are right about going with my gut and staying safe
I hope this happens soon....I am very excited for it to happen!

I would recommend meeting the couple that you are going to potentially swing with first. I have been in the scene as a couple mostly and then tried it as a single and didn't like it at all. The women that I already knew treated me much different as a single (and knew nothing of the hobby aspect of my life). C4P.com is a great place to start exploring. Have fun!

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QUOTE=Angel in KC;1053974703]thanks for all great advice and offers! I am a bit overwhelmed!
I want to go to some kind of swingers party with classy people...with a guy or girl and guy that I have met in advance
sweetcountrygirl......you seem so cool and nice.....I would love to go hang out somewhere on a weekend nite and get to know each other
I would love to do a 3 or 4 way I just want someone else to plan it!
and VK you are right about going with my gut and staying safe
I hope this happens soon....I am very excited for it to happen![/QUOTE]

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Heteroflexible? Originally Posted by JonSnow

Love it! My new title