i Need to know reason they don't want to see?

You stated she was newbie friendly. Her response indicates she is. Any woman on here can choose who they see so I really do not understand how her caveat makes her any different from the rest of the ladies listed on that thread.

Ah I'm the same way, don't want to see every woman on here, so far just 1 and I've done an alternative screening so to speak but still no dice. Oh well, life goes on.