Most definetely not. Most of my dates were multi-hours and I really did enjoy them. I enjoy men that KNOW what they are getting into. Men that realized that I was an escort and understood the NSA aspect of all of this.
I deleted my initial comments but I will repost...
I will have to admit the first time I was booked for a multi-day engagement I did not understand why someone would want to spend that much time with me. However, I enjoyed it.. as in REALLY enjoyed it. I loved the whole experience. The second time was WITH the same guy and it was then that I started to notice that multi-day engagements were not for me. I was emotionally drained by this man. He demanded wayy too much from me. He wanted love again and wanted to marry (after meeting once before/emails and phone calls lol) which was something I could not give him. He wanted to control my every move during our time together. I could not turn away from him for a minute or he would throw a fit. I could not look at the tv for a second. Keep in mind that this was 4 clock free dates in a row and not a one hour appointment
As I posted before, while we were together he would let himself into my hotel room. I woke up one morning and he was standing before me. He asked the front desk for a key and they gave it to him. This happened twice and like a good little provider I did not complain. I felt the need to cater to his fantasy/experience/whatever the hell it was he thought we had together. All this while I felt smothered and violated. I even called a provider friend of mine to talk to her because about the situation because it felt like I was in a prison almost.
Marshall, before this man I had lots of clock-free dates and they all went very well. I enjoyed longer dates. I enjoyed my time as a provider but this particular situation was VERY uncomfortable for me. When it was time for us to part ways, I was ecstatic. I was so happy to go home and lay on my bed. This man made all of his problems mine ...I wanted to cry. It was like he blamed me for his marriage failing. He would say things like "This is all your fault" whatever that meant. It got to a point where I didn't want the money anymore. There was no amount of money he could have paid me to see him again. After the horrid 4 days together, he wanted to spend another week week me a month later and I told him "NO".
Originally Posted by Naomi4u
Sounds like my diary from the past several months...Except my client wanted to control my life in between our dates, as well. He emailed, called and texted non-stop. He demanded immediate responses or threatened to cancel future dates. He had no understanding of anything except what he needed now, now, now...and I better drop what I was doing or else. Outings with my kids, personal family emergencies...nothing stopped him. He was extremely jealous of reviews, even eventually demanded I not display my showcase or avatar picture. He even tried to get me to resign from Eccie. He didn't want me watching TV, either. Anything that took a second away from him, no matter what it was... He was like a 2 year old in a senior citizen's body. I honestly feel he looked at me as a favorite toy that he owned. He had to have looked at it as ownership, or his behavior couldn't have been justified, even by him.
I can really identify with what you felt at the end of the date. I wanted to do a cartwheel. One time I actually did! I've never served a prison sentence, but I imagine the feeling you'd get the day you're finally released is identical to what I felt at the end of one of our weekend dates.
I could see where it was steadily developing more and more potential for danger...so I cut it off. I let it go on too long, really. Initially, I was blinded by the money...but eventually I couldn't even get excited about spending it.
I value my sanity over monetary compensation, any day of the week. I value it even more so, now, because I temporarily sacrificed it.
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