My two cents .... I think I am just a regular Guy come from a large family half of my sisters and brothers can pass for white other half darker ... me I have always prreferd white or light skin women.... just me .
Other than society. I don't think there's a valid reason for a "successful black" to choose other races. Let's say this "successful black man" grew up fairly poor the 1st time he can afford to do the things he's seen on tv he does exactly that!! I.e cars,clothes and women!!
Society teaches us that black women are angry all because we stand up for ourselves. But we have no choice look at how the black man runs, hide and tucks his tail in the line of fire! I know a few black men on this board that will comment and defend every single post/topic that pops up but when black women are been attacked and belittled these guys remain quite!! I have seen more white men stick up for black women than black men. It's not only on this board I see it in real life to. It's sickening but don't blame me for being a little more defensive than my white counterpart but I have to constantly defend my skin color within my own race. I have white friends and I've seen them act 10x crazier doing things to hurt their man that would never do. They do things like hurt your career. That same "professional black man" all it takes is the right white woman to single handily destroy your whole career! We have seen it happen so many times!!
Maybe if society chills with the black chicks are angry and they talk back and they don't want to get their hair wet. Then Shanequa can get her a Bob!! And Becky can keep Jayz!!