well said....I like to keep my gifts private and as far as the multi hour minimum you are right that is showing a poor attitude in my opinion. I know I have spend more than one hour just because we were having so much fun....and that is what it is about..To put requirements in my opinion is just so business like and while gifts are involved it is more about having fun and relaxing and I know I would not want to be committed to a multi date with someone I don't click with...but that is just me...
Grandfathering rates-- I hate when girls advertise it. To me, that is just low class. Just publish regular rates and leave it at that. If a provider wants to give a "discount" rate to returning clients, she should keep it out of her ads. She needs to keep that low key. It also allows her to determine which clients rate a discount without every Tom, Dick and Harry asking for the discount. Also, if a provider offers specials, fine, but don't be like K-Mart with a Blue Light Special every other day. It only confuses us guys. What's the regular rate? What's the special?
Multi-Hour Minimum-- I hate this as well. It just oozes a snobbish attitude and most likely GPS on the part of the provider. The client should determine the length of the appointment. I can understand a 1 hour minimum but anything over that is extreme. To me when I see something like a 2 hour minimum, I equate it with a provider's desire to do 1/2 the work and get paid double the money. If I want to pay for an hour's worth "getting to know you time", that should be my choice. As stated, if a provider wants to get to know a client, do it before the date. We do have e-mail and phones for this.
15 minute appointments-- what is this, the FedEx of sex? Why not a 5 minute rate? I know I can bust a nut in 5 minutes-- unzip, suck, cum, zip and go. Brings new meaning to the term high volume.
Originally Posted by Cpalmson