I feel dirty

Sorry to be a downer, but I forgot to warn you about something...

Sometimes you can (help) change a person and then they realize they are too good for you.

Not trying to discourage you. Have fun, and whatever happens, you were mentally prepared. It is good to see that you're planning mutual improvement. Helping each other can always be fun.

Thank you, Brandi, my point exactly. No one is perfect, and that is the point I was making. Judge her, judge yourself as well.

This lady seems to be educated and genuine, which is rare these days.