Have you ever gotten involved with a married man? Was it love at first glance or did he have to grow on you?
Cheaters Cheat and Liars Lie and a married man dropping cash on a whore is both.....
you might THINK he has feelings for you the way you have for him but it's all just a lie designed to get what he wants in the moment....
You can try break it off with him.... if you fell right away it's never gonna happen.... It's not gonna end until he ends it and if he wants you back you are going to give in.... You have no choice….
Why? Because you believed the lies from the start..... To lose hope is synonymous to realizing how pathetic it was to fall in the first place...
You have no control in it..... Cheaters belong to another woman.... He might cheat on her and hope to never get caught but she has something that you are never going to have.... him....
Assume for a moment all the stories he told you of how horrible she is are true…(thay are not but play along) .... he always comes home to her right? He provides for her and even spoils her while settling for so much less than you are willing to give… Why? Go figure…. He loves her? She NEVER has to step up her game to have him…. She just has to weigh what he provides vs what she wants to give…… Hell… She’s way ahead of you in the game cause she does less and has him…..
You might think she would dump him if she knew?... naw..... She's going to forgive him..... Why? I can't say I understand that part of it.... It’s just the way it is…..
Some cheaters can be cruel...walking out on you and coming back over and over and over again....
Why?
Well.. You THOUGHT you were different than the wife was but the moment you knowingly let him leave to go home to her you gave him permission to do it over and over.... he lost respect for you that first time you accepted his leaving to return to her..... once he learns he can do that to you it will never change.... It can't.... you've accepted a quality in him he really dislikes himself.... So he will use you as needed and return to her....
He is even going to find another just like you.... Remember those stories about the wife and how horrible she is?..... You have to realize that with the next girl the stories are the same but you are the new subject.....
Cheaters Cheat..... Liars Lie..... They always go home to their wives…..
I will never understand why a woman wants another woman's man..... Why does you think you can be better than her and he will want to change for you? You are already defective in his eyes for wanting him KNOWING he is cheating..... Each and every time you let him return to you.... you undermine yourself....
My days on these boards go back to 1999 and I’ve been meeting guys and gals since the start….. I’ve seen it play out countless numbers of times…….
Most of those guys are at home tonight with their wives……. I don’t know a single whore that won this struggle…..
I’m sure others have experienced this as well…..
So tell me ladies…. Why do you think you are gal that wins and has the Cheater in the end?
Guys? Are you ever really going to take a whore and replace your wife with her? Are you going to put her in a role that involves your kids?
Originally Posted by Whispers
Why does this sound like the start of his own Autobiography? From everything he's stated for the last couple of years, he is describing his own situation.. just recently he was even talking on here about some "whore" with child he rescued. Now it's beginning to make sense about Whispers mental issues and women that are self sufficient. He can't stand women that don't rely on his handouts or deficiencies, thus the name calling.. I GET IT NOW!!!!