I think it is easier for myself if I make it a little sloppy. Were the BJs too sloppy on those vids? No. But, they don't HAVE to be that sloppy to be enjoyed, and they can even be SLOPPIER! It just all depends on what YOU enjoy, and I am a big pleaser! I have given many sloppy BJs. If I know in advance that is what you would like, I will make sure to come with an empty stomach...no one enjoys tossed cookies!
Thank you Cockaltte for sharing this thread with me...some of these answers are real turn ons!