To WINE and DINE - or Not ?

If I have drinks first, my wiener won't work. I can appreciate some company for lunch or dinner, but the SO likes to eat and drink, so I have that covered.

YMMV has to do more with Hobbyists than Providers... here's the scale:



BLM69 <<-----x-----x-----x-----x-----x-----x-----x-----x-----x-----x----->>Scribe


I will guarantee you, everybody fits between the two of us...

BLM69:

• Time is money
• The nut is the goal
• No BS pragmatist
• The virility of youth

Scribe:

• Money is a medium
• The experience is the goal
• Romanticist
• The wisdom of age

There is nothing wrong with BLM69's way of thinking, nor mine - they are just two ways of looking at the same thing from different ages. Slam good tequilas, or linger over a great Bordeaux... Quantity or Quality.
MANY providers would rather see BLM69, (BAMM, get my money, SeeYa!)

And, MANY would rather see me (Holy F#ck, that was a GREAT time! When can I come back?)

However, that being said - I never pay for "meal times", but I have paid for evenings - and it would be pretty freaking funny to say "Hey beautiful, I know I have you for 24 hours - but, I'm going to go out, have a great dinner, and I'll be back around 8pm... I'm sure you have to eat... hope you packed a lunchbox... see you!" lol

So (sure), you want to eat and talk - excellent! Love to! and the food and drinks are on me... but, your "meal time" is on you. Originally Posted by Scribe

I'm with Scribe. It's all about the connection. The OTC stuff really makes it for me.

I just love these guys ... that came over from backpage ... they have so much valuable and insightful input for ECCIE.

It's comical - if nothing else.

I'm LMAO - watching a certain young someone make an ass out of himself.

And this is your grandma mister! You deserve a good whoopin.
Pull your pants down and I'm gonna get a stick from the back yard!

Then you can sit in the corner on your knees .... on corn!

A good thump on the head to finish it off! Originally Posted by Torre Tames

I thought you blocked me granny but here you are responding, my dad use to tell me old stories about those type of punishments, you're showing your real age and bet it's higher than showcase age

I'm not as young as you think and I'm sure backpage wasn't around when you started in your hooker career, I suggest you stop poking the bear now and take your jabs elsewhere, I'm not the one granny.

I wish that I could remember who on here said this -- I'd credit him for the insight:

My choice of female partners has become less a matter of who I'd like to fall into bed with, as it is who I'd like to wake up next to.

I understand that's going to be seen by some on here as really clingy and needy ... so be it. An intellectual and emotional connection just makes the physical connection better for me. Drinks or dinner before BCD (or, just some quiet get-to-know you)? You bet. WALDT, and that's what I like.

BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH

Just go on with your insecure banter ... BLM

If you have any more derogatory comments about me - we can take that to PM. No need to contaminate this thread anymore than you have already.

BACK TO THE SUBJECT:
Sometimes .... desert can be brought to the room ... like whip cream ... chocolate and strawberries ... lots of fun to be had!!

I love taking a lady out, getting to know you and making a real connection here on match.com.....wait, sorry, wrong site. Never mind.

I would be all for wining & dining. It would really build up the mental foreplay, build the sexual tension. I would be fine with paying for the ladies meal, but not if she's gonna have a rate of charging me an extra $100 for taking her out, that is too much.

The problem with eating first is the gas that is generated.

The problem with eating first is the gas that is generated. Originally Posted by pyramider

Admittedly, there is great risk in doing so.

I wish that I could remember who on here said this -- I'd credit him for the insight:

My choice of female partners has become less a matter of who I'd like to fall into bed with, as it is who I'd like to wake up next to.

I understand that's going to be seen by some on here as really clingy and needy ... so be it. An intellectual and emotional connection just makes the physical connection better for me. Drinks or dinner before BCD (or, just some quiet get-to-know you)? You bet. WALDT, and that's what I like. Originally Posted by Paradigms Lost

Well, there are at least three like-minded guys around here. Some providers provide sexual services only; some provide companionship as well. Just because some of us prefer the latter to the former doesn't mean we're looking to fall in love; it just means we'd like to find someone whose company, as well as services, we enjoy.

I agree with the OP

Anticipation has its own rewards

Thanks Gentleman Ron da vou

If I'm allowed to quote myself:

Taking that time to "get in someone's head" before you get in thier loins is really yummy in so many ways. Originally Posted by Torre Tames

I second that again and again ....

I think it's a no brainier in my little/big head to shop n dine a long time regular for valentines day. If you see her, enjoy the soft awesome panties guys. I know I did :-). She only got 8 pair plus other hot stuff this day. She hasn't had to buy panties for years lol

I thought you blocked me granny but here you are responding, my dad use to tell me old stories about those type of punishments, you're showing your real age and bet it's higher than showcase age

I'm not as young as you think and I'm sure backpage wasn't around when you started in your hooker career, I suggest you stop poking the bear now and take your jabs elsewhere, I'm not the one granny. Originally Posted by BLM69

Come on BLM. I don't care what her age is, Torre is hot as fuck!
I would gladly take her to dinner with or without BCD session.

Thanks Gentleman Ron da vou

If I'm allowed to quote myself:



I second that again and again .... Originally Posted by Torre Tames

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