Male submissives hail from all walks of life and many are assertive, confident people in everyday life. I have also heard tales of extremely powerful men enjoying femdom in private.I would have to agree. What most don't understand about the Domme/sub relationship is to NOT THINK about who has the upper hand. To have someone give you control is to be in a position of trust. Therefore when a command is spoken, you know that what you're told to do is in the best interest of you both. No one is in danger of dying or being hurt beyond what they're capable of taking. It's like stress relief for those wound too tight in their every day life.
I have had this debate with people before. They seem concerned that the games of sexual domination I like to play could somehow harm me psychologically. I have always argued vehemently that it does no harm and has never held me back. I am my own person and have a successful career and life. I guess if you were to choose to make it an all encompassing lifestyle thing, then THAT would be a problem to reconcile with your inner self. Othwerwise, as a fetish, I don't see the harm, if kept between you and your partner(s). Originally Posted by yourslave
To open your mind to sensual domination is to open your mind to the beauty and awesomeness of your partner. It includes body worship, lots of teasing and prolonging of pleasure, and other fun stuff. This is something the right woman could entrance you into no matter what your sexual style is, and you wouldn't even notice it.
I would definitely recommend reading more about the acts, but the mind frame is definitely more important. It's something that you may find that you naturally possess.
Have fun!