I take it that it didn't bother you in the least that they lied about their age ..... Originally Posted by Eccie AddictLied is such an ugly word Mr Addict. How about we use embellish!? Here is how I get the intel... I tell them, My God you are drop dead gorgeous. I cannot believe you are ("LISTED AGE"?) when you hit them with that and don't lose eye contact, watch for their demeanor to change. In most cases if they like you, they follow up with your not going to believe how old I am? And they spill the beans! Once again hands tell a story! My point of view... I don't worry or care about plus or minus years unless a provider looks to young! If the provider carries in books and say I need to finish home work.... I want ID! It’s the 18-22 year olds we need to be VERY careful with. I know some guys like them young... be careful. I personally like the 25-80 group. Outside of that they are protected by strict rules or by mother nature. Everything in between is fair game!
At least since I started hobbying I no longer have to lie about how many sexual partners I have had. One of my ATFs is 5 years older, but it does not make one bit of difference, because I like her, and the date on her DL means nothing. Originally Posted by FlectiNonFrangi
Ugly or not it's the correct word to use.... Originally Posted by Eccie AddictI certainly respect your right to your option, and by all means feel free to call a lady a liar!
Here is how I get the intel... I tell them, My God you are drop dead gorgeous. I cannot believe you are ("LISTED AGE"?) when you hit them with that and don't lose eye contact, watch for their demeanor to change. Originally Posted by Still LookingWhy play games? If she is a good looking lady, give her a compliment and move on. A gentleman wouldn't bring up her age.
Why play games? If she is a good looking lady, give her a compliment and move on. A gentleman wouldn't bring up her age. Originally Posted by AnsleyNot a game. It’s always nice to allow someone to be honest. As you say if she is a good looking lady, perhaps a hobbyist might want keep seeing her. I think honesty is important in any relationship! Sometimes it works out to be a nice ice breaker on a first visit.
+ 1 couldn't have said it better Ansley Keyword Gentlemen, my favoriteSuper Hot Lady in Red: A gentleman would never ask a ladies age! You are 100% correct. What we’re talking about here is questioning a published age! I have mentioned it several times in other posts..I really don't care about the age... but honesty is pretty high on my list. Especially if I plan on continuing the relationship (ATF)
note to self, buy good hand cream lol Originally Posted by Sweet N Little
Still Looking we all lie and its not like its some attrocious crime to do so. Like I said before though, I bet there are ladies that have an age restriction that would have no problem calling a guy a liar if he lied about his age so he could see her. You sure don't have a problem not sugarcoating things when you feel wronged....Now look who's calling the kettle black? EVERYTHING your saying is either true or your option. I still disagree with you. You go ahead and call a lady a liar and she might just knock that rabbit suite right off of you! For the record, you’re talking about several things. I'm only talking about the use of the word liar! That’s about as straight forward as I can make it! (Non-sugarcoated if you will) I mean no disrespect!
I don't have an issue with a lady's age. In fact it has yet to be a factor in my decision making process when seeing a provider.... Originally Posted by Eccie Addict
+ 1 couldn't have said it better Ansley Keyword Gentlemen, my favoriteA gentleman won't as but then a proper lady would not lie.
note to self, buy good hand cream lol Originally Posted by Sweet N Little
Why play games? If she is a good looking lady, give her a compliment and move on. A gentleman wouldn't bring up her age. Originally Posted by AnsleyI may be a bit caustic on the board, but I'm not in person...I try to be a gentleman. If the lady appears 15 years older than her pics, it might be a disappointment, but no reason to be rude or cancel the session. We are both taking chances on such a meeting. I firmly believe that the thing to do in such a situation is to be a gentleman and get the best out of the session as possible. If it's a remarkable session, you may have found a diamond in the rough, and you'll repeat. The worst that will happen is that you won't repeat.