So strippers LIE?
Originally Posted by beezdat
The big thing is not so much as the lie. And we don't even have to be talking about strippers. They really may have a hardship that could be remedied with a little help. But when they approach you, they go in hoping you offer. But if they have to sleep with you, they may.
I started because I was in bad shape financially. Signed up with an agency, made enough to keep to my apartment and feed myself. But it wasn't until I went indy that I became successful and really began loving my job.
But there were people during my agency to indy transition that definitely tried these games. And because my agency provided me with ZERO practical information it could have gotten ugly. I was given "advice" on my rates and menu that would have resulted in either severe burnout or self loathing.
At the end of the day, no matter how close you are, any man that wants to give you tips for being an escort is only looking out for himself. If I had a dollar for every guy that tried to convince me to work 8 hours a day, 5 days a week, for $200/hour.......oh wait. I do.
Originally Posted by Lovely_Lilianna
It sounds like you went in with both feet on the ground. Did it seem natural for you to go to the agency, or did you ever try stripping first?
I agree with this, as a woman who thinks and does her own research. But there are so many young girls out there that gravitate to men for guidance. And women don't make it easy to come to them. There's so much jealousy amongst us.