You know, maybe I am wrong but I always thought this was a simple way for everyone to realize whether or not it was LE they were talking to because hobbyists are worried also.
I would think the best idea would be for the woman to straight up grope the guy first thing and give it a good rub, no LE is probably EVER going to do that. Also, once that happens the hobbyist likely will not suspect a thing.
That probably is the best icebreaker unless you know a reason to doubt it. Otherwise I wouldn't talk about a thing until meeting, not a thing, just set up a time and place.
Originally Posted by exoticdanceweardealer
While I like that icebreaker idea, it doesn't do anything except provide a possible plain clothes or uc a free grope. There were reports out of GA for a UC officer getting fully nude with the client. Then her co-workers took pics and spread them around the office, but she got nude. I've also heard of clients going thru with the act prior to busting.