Feeling ripped of by my Regular - need advice

Thank you for the advice, I have asked her she tells me she is not running the special that day. Originally Posted by billrich

Why would she?.....she has you lined up for the premium.

Well it sounds like maybe you just might start looking around for a new regular then....I'm sure there are plenty of decent girls who would be more than happy to have a regular hobbyist each week. Hell it's $ they can count on...

You may want to consider a SB...

I understand that I have to donate what we originally agreed on, but for some reason I feel I should be offered the special or as some of you suggested, extra time sometimes because of the fact we see each other weekly. Also is there a difference between the middle of the week and Friday rates?

Most of you guys suggested variety... I am more of a regular type guy. I find the more times I see a provider the more comfortable I am, and the better the experience.

Everything you are saying is that she is using you and not being a good customer.. Freequent flyier miles mean anything? If not time time to start flying on a different airline

I understand that I have to donate what we originally agreed on, but for some reason I feel I should be offered the special or as some of you suggested, extra time sometimes because of the fact we see each other weekly. Also is there a difference between the middle of the week and Friday rates?

Most of you guys suggested variety... I am more of a regular type guy. I find the more times I see a provider the more comfortable I am, and the better the experience. Originally Posted by billrich

Yes, middle of the week is when she's trying to attract new clients. Fridays is when she counts on you, her regular customer, to pay a premium.

This is so simple....if you like the service then pay it. If you don't like it then stop. It's supply and demand. She will either lower her rates to keep you or she will find someone to replace you. If you like what you are getting for your donation the stfu and carry on. No one is forcing you to pay a dime. If you want all the specials than watch the adds and purchase what's on sale.

A word to the wise however.......you get what you pay for.

It sounds like you got your answer. You asked about the special rate and she told you that it's not available on the days you request to see her. If you feel that's a sufficient enough reason for her to not offer you said rate, then keep doing what you're doing. I have a regular that I see quite often. My "discount" comes in the form of not paying for off the clock time. Be it dinner, drinks or just chilling at my place yelling at the TV (both avid sports fans), the clock doesn't start until we hit BCD. Sometimes our meetings are strictly business due to time constraints but that's to be expected. Now that setup wasn't offered to me. We discussed it and that's the result of our mutual agreement. It's been going on for a few months and with football season starting, it's about to get a little more interesting. She talks a good game with her football knowledge, so I let her in the fantasy league. Gotta pony up 500 bucks to play and no, I didn't give her a discount. She actually proposed a $500 side bet for when our teams play each other. We haven't even had the draft yet! Shit almost brought a tear to my eye... Chick is alright with me!

I say move on. Maybe she'll change her tune when your money stops showing up weekly.... Maybe not... But it sounds like you're feeling unappreciated and/or cheated. There's no need to pay for that. Good luck!

Some pills allow for only one per year. Originally Posted by GlobeSpotter

Maybe she had a hysterectomy....?

You have to sign up for the frequent fucker miles. We don't just hand those out automatically. Originally Posted by Lauren Mayfair

LOL I think I just peed a little...

Eight (8) weeks? Shouldn't she of had a couple of menstrual cycles in there Originally Posted by Dorian Gray

Some pills allow for only one per year. Originally Posted by GlobeSpotter

Maybe she had a hysterectomy....? Originally Posted by Sinfonian

Or....maybe....just maybe.....

SHE'S PREGNANT ????????????

I feel I should be offered the special or as some of you suggested, extra time sometimes because of the fact we see each other weekly. Originally Posted by billrich

No...

No you are not entilted to an discount. But by all means it doesnt hurt to ask and see what she says.

This sums it up:

Entitled to discount - no

Ask if her weekly discounts or specials apply to you - yes

Posting this in public for her to see (assuming she's on the board) - bad idea

Feeling unappreciated because she doesn't offer a discount without asking - man up - this ain't about catching feelings or getting hurt - just keep it simple and have fun

Can't get over not getting a discount - move on to the next one

I have been seeing a provider weekly for the past 8 weeks. Originally Posted by billrich

This might be like a record. Since you are trying to get discount on future visits, I guess you not even at a half way to moving on. You are taking the commitment to a new level.

Ok, here's a thought...
If you're feeling anything other than the physical sensations you might be in too deep.