I prefer to use nice wooden spoons or wooden stiring implements from William Senoma, like a chili paddle. Something sturdy with a nice grip. My fetish clients have their own and I broke my favorite recently so guess I need to plan on purchasing another soon. I had a guy who wanted me to leave marks and that was extremely HOT. Said he felt them for a week and he would get hard thinking about me all throughout the day!
Mmmmmm....that's so damn sexy!