Sorry I'm late to the party and not very sorry that I'm only peeking my head in. Stefany - your reply from the 14th is spot on, Thank you.
Originally Posted by Electricfeelnow
FINALLY you decided to jump in. Welcome to the party. Do you mind telling us just what is SPOT ON about Stefany's post? In the mean time, I'll address a couple of things from her post myself.
1: I don't give a crap about what anyone (especially OP) has to say in response to this since I'm no longer seeing new clients
Originally Posted by Stefany
Don't worry, I won't be calling you.
2: Had this been a few days ago, sure, complain all you want about it. But I seriously doubt anyone who got NCNS'd 10 MONTHS ago really has room to continually blast a provider. Simply state: I am no longer seeing so and so for x,y, and z. I'm posting because I'd like her to have the opportunity to tell her side and state the facts. And if anyone has anything to add/share, please do, respectfully here.
Originally Posted by Stefany
Really? The last time I check we still live in a free country where freedom of speech is still in place. And it doesn't matter the industry, if someone wastes my time, has me drive clear across town and not even care to respond AFTER just 45-50 min earlier stating that the appointment was CONFIRMED, then I'm going to tell others about it for as long as I see fit.
There are certain banks that I will never deal with again because they have, in one form or another, taken advantage of me. And to this day I tell others about it, leaving that person to make their own mind up if they want to do business with them. The same with car dealerships. I do, can and will warn people of those who do not operate in a professional manner, ESPECIALLY in this industry. And if you've been warned, then you get bit in the butt, then don't come crying to me about it, because I warned you.
As opposed to demanding she pay you back for sessions you'd already had ? (Please correct me if I'm wrong).
Originally Posted by Stefany
Ok! YOU'RE WRONG! As normal, you girls get your panties in a wad and fail to read. Never once did I say that she pay me back for sessions I'd already had. But here IS what I said: "
There's only one way to make it right and that's to repay me for the time you cost me."
Now while I agree that after this much time that is pushing it, and in a later post I even said that I'm not looking for a freebie, I still hold to the fact that when someone wastes my time, then I'm not going to just
Jump back in bed with them because I like them. Sorry, I don't play that way.
And had you been harassing her, bud, that is PROBABLY a good reason why she didn't respond once you showed up.
Originally Posted by Stefany
Once again, your head is somewhere out in left field and had you actually taken the time to read my post you would see that:
1)
I've seen you two times, both last Dec (17th & 24th) and even left a nice Christmas tip to which you texted me saying I left too much (great gesture on your part) and I replied with "Merry Christmas" simply because I wanted to see you again.
2)
Then it happened. I scheduled with you for Jan. 21st and texted you asking for a confirmation before leaving my house, as it's a long 30 drive one way to see you. You replied with CONFIRMED! So I got ready and left. After I arrived you never replied, after several texts and thirty min. of waiting, I left. At that point I decided to start warning guys of your antics.
3) Had you taken the time to read the links associated with this thread, you would have saved a lot of waisted bandwidth and time correcting your ill written post. So I'll do your homework for you:
This was on 2/6/13
"You wouldn't have this problem if you didn't have people drive to your location then stop communicating and leave them sitting until they finally figure out that you have flaked on them. You wasted an hour and a half of my time, not counting gas driving 30 min. one way to get to your place. I've seen you twice and even left an extra tip. Personally, I like you, but I hate having an appointment "confirmed" (your exact wording) only to have you flake out less than an hour and a half later. I went out of my way to come to your location then you left me sitting with a bunch of crickets. So I guess it's "Sheesh" back atcha. If you want to fix it, I'm sure you can come up with a solution. In the mean time, deal with what you have dealt out."
NO WHERE in any of that do you see that I harassed her. You DO see that I tipped her. You DO see that I called her out for NCNS. You DO see that I left the door open for communication, leaving it up to her to make it right.
So once again, you've shown yourself to be ill informed and spouting off at the mouth about things that you are clueless on.
Either that or something happened. Maybe her gran died and she just couldn't get around to texting back AT THAT SECOND, but after harassing texts about a ncns, she didn't feel she owed you anything (especially if she was busy dealing with RW stuff, which is almost understandable).
Originally Posted by Stefany
I'm not even going to waste my time to respond to the ludicrousness of this again.
I'm sorry, but coming off as someone entitled and disrespectful to the girls here and the amount of BS we do continually have to deal with (as opposed to someone who hobbies maybe once, twice a month or so?) shouldn't really be able to complain about how this is all about "respect". Treating us like we're possessions or something you can just "pay for" and get a refund for because of ONE ncns 10 MONTHS AGO is taking it a bit far.
Originally Posted by Stefany
Listen honey
(that's sarcasm if you haven't figured it out) don't you dare come on here complaining about
"
the amount of BS we do continually have to deal with
" when you are charging the fee you are charging. If you can't handle the BS that goes along with the payday then get the fuck outta the business. I don't care who the professional is; doctor, lawyer, congressman, provider, etc if you are getting over $100 an hour for your services then don't you dare come around me complaining about all the BS you have to put up with. I work my ass off for every penny I earn and personally don't give a rats ass about the BS you have to put up with. You chose this line of work DEAL WITH IT!
And it doesn't matter if I hobby one a month, week or year; that is totally irrelevant to the issue at hand. I've NEVER ONCE treated any ladies I've seen like a possession, including Kate. All you need do is ask any of them (I do have reviews). In fact, once again, if you would have taken the time to actually READ, you would see that I tipped her with a Christmas bonus that was unexpected from her! I was, and am simply asking to be treated with the same manner of respect that I have
ALREADY shown (prior to the NCNS).
BECAUSE she left me standing out in the cold,
BECAUSE she did not respond to my texts or calls while I was waiting in said cold, and
BECAUSE she never answered me prior to 2/6/13, then I started warning guys about her. Further
BECAUSE she got tired of it and sent me a PM calling me names then I decided to give her another opportunity - which
AGAIN she has failed to even address the issue.
And, again, I don't really care if you want to shut me down and say to take my nose out of your business,
Originally Posted by Stefany
Good
TAKE YOUR NOSE OUT OF MY BUSINESS!
but, hey buddy, if you posted it in Co-ed, I'd think twice about telling anyone here to shove off.
Originally Posted by Stefany
Too late!
You opened this can of worms and now just deal with people who don't agree with you.
Originally Posted by Stefany
Yep, I did open this can of worms, and yes I am dealing with it. I could care less if WKs disagree with me. I fully expect that. I could care less if nosy
Mrs. Gladys types (see my earlier post
that is IF you care to actually read before responding) pipe in here, that just tells me who NOT to waste my money on.
Wow! So much drama and time wasted dealing with one ill-informed post. As Kate said so well
Sheesh!