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"Reward the girls who Take Care of Business and you normally have a GREAT time."
A big thumbs up on that one, beezdat!
I try to answer requests as quickly as possible. I let the gentleman know ahead of time that I need as much advance notice as he can give me, a minimum of 2 hours at the very least. I am not one to squeeze as many in as I can.
It is also true that most ladies are not sitting by the phone, or computer, all dolled up and ready to go. Some ladies have RL jobs, or family obligations. Advanced planning is always a good idea. Here at least.

Oh if I could ever favorite a response

Heavens, darlings, patience! I guess because I'm one of those evidently rare ladies who asks for prior notice the day before, I miss out on the fellows who are in "urgent need." (Doesn't hurt to call and see if I AM available, however, within a 2-hour window.) Unless I just happen to be sitting at the computer, I usually can't respond until evening, and I would think many other providers are the same way if they have regulars, or a "life" outside of the profession. We don't all perch by the monitor or phone like vultures, ya know.

But I understand that when you get an itch, you want it scratched fast.

Calling 2 providers for the same session and seeing who answers first is crude, cruel, and rude. Really, gentlemen? If you're in a hurry and have a limited time window, indicate that when you contact provider #1, and if you waited, called provider #2, then heard back from the first, what Katrina said goes.

Above all, be polite, and think about how YOU would feel if someone played games with YOUR time. Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

LMAO i have been that guy to getting dressed after a nasty sweaty mind blowing session the girl gives her parts one quick wipe with damp cloth the texting the next guy give me 5 minutes Originally Posted by flyinghillbilly

One quick wipe is better than no wipe.

The key is to be considerate. If you are booking a last minute appointment (within an hour or two) don't assume we all sit around with hair and make up done waiting for a call. Cancellations always suck, but I would rather advanced honesty than a last minute "F" you. lol
How long should you wait? That depends on how much of a hurry you are in. Originally Posted by heidilynnla

Hair and makeup are optional if the need is great. I mean doing your hair, but there are some attractive bald women out there...

to original post, i am not a provider, but most of my arrangements are set up days ahead of time. I can usually wait a day or two for a response.

if i am being spontaneous, like i have a few hours right now to play, and few hundred in my pocket, I start in my "black" book, and give about 20 minutes before I text or email another. I let them know i have a limited window of time. if I get a couple texting back, the first to confirm a place and time to meet my needs gets my dough

From a Provider that is not available on short notice and does have a lot of real world things to do I would say 24 hours but if you contacting a short notice Provider I would say 1 Hour


Safire Sweet

I generally only see my ATF, and I give her a call a few days in advance, with a confirmation day of. I like to get put down for a certain day a bit in advance, as I travel a bit and I sometimes am only in her area for a day or two. Plus, the buildup is pretty great too. If I call and say I'd like to see her Friday on Tuesday or Wednesday, it makes the rest of that week suck a bit less.

I usuallly always book a day ahead. So this won't be too much a problem for me.

Now when I mostly have an issue.....is when I am on the appointment day.....and she doesn't confirm an hour before or arrive at the time of the appointment. I hate when providers show up late.........and hate more when they don't have the decency to answer or respond back. After about 10 minutes after waiting with no response after she's late Ill send a text response or voicemail saying "I'm going to make other arrangements for my overnight booking." I usually get a call right back after that.

Now the new provider I'm calling since I'm anxious now and paranoid if anyone would show up....Ill tell her if she can arrive in 30 minutes I would book with her. I tell her don't worry about a shower, or make up and what not and just show up to my outcall. When she arrives she can do all that......the biggest thing for me is confirmation somebodys going to arrive. I get impatient and very anxious when I'm horny and hate waitin. When a lady walks through the door its a relief.

Heavens, darlings, patience! I guess because I'm one of those evidently rare ladies who asks for prior notice the day before, I miss out on the fellows who are in "urgent need." (Doesn't hurt to call and see if I AM available, however, within a 2-hour window.) Unless I just happen to be sitting at the computer, I usually can't respond until evening, and I would think many other providers are the same way if they have regulars, or a "life" outside of the profession. We don't all perch by the monitor or phone like vultures, ya know.

But I understand that when you get an itch, you want it scratched fast.

Calling 2 providers for the same session and seeing who answers first is crude, cruel, and rude. Really, gentlemen? If you're in a hurry and have a limited time window, indicate that when you contact provider #1, and if you waited, called provider #2, then heard back from the first, what Katrina said goes.

Above all, be polite, and think about how YOU would feel if someone played games with YOUR time. Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

This is a response worth noting gentlemen.

Good God an hour? As much as I would love to just stay at home all day dolled up and waiting by the phone, sadly I cannot. I usually reply within 1-2 hours IF I'm not busy, but I do have a real life too. I am a full time student and I work a civvie job and I am sorry but if my phone goes off in class or at work I will not be checking it until later.

I ALWAYS reply to emails/texts/callers who are polite. A 12-24 hour notice I think is a reasonable time. I rarely make same day appointments anyways so a gentleman would still have to wait. IDK, now I am feeling all paranoid about all of the potential business I could lose just because I am there at every man's beck and call....

But this is just me.

I ALWAYS reply to emails/texts/callers who are polite. A 12-24 hour notice I think is a reasonable time.
But this is just me. Originally Posted by Karyn Lovely

And I would agree that a reply to a polite inquiry within 12 to 24 hours is reasonable since I tend to book a week or more in advance.

But I can tell you, I've had experience with contacting a provider asking to see if there's a time slot available on their calendar on a certain weekend 5+ days in advance, where I see they logged in to the site (ECCIE or P411) since the PM was sent, and now, 2 days later, no reply.


Those I mark as "Excluded" and simply move on. Those providers will NEVER be hearing from me, there are too many good ones out there that take care of their business better to waste my time. I even had one contact me 6 days after my request to tell me "Sure sweetie, I've got you booked for Saturday at Such-and-such time" and had to explain to her that since she didn't respond within 4 days, I booked with someone else.

And I would agree that a reply to a polite inquiry within 12 to 24 hours is reasonable since I tend to book a week or more in advance.

But I can tell you, I've had experience with contacting a provider asking to see if there's a time slot available on their calendar on a certain weekend 5+ days in advance, where I see they logged in to the site (ECCIE or P411) since the PM was sent, and now, 2 days later, no reply.


Those I mark as "Excluded" and
simply move on. Those providers will NEVER be hearing from me, there are too many good ones out there that take care of their business better to waste my time. I even had one contact me 6 days after my request to tell me "Sure sweetie, I've got you booked for Saturday at Such-and-such time" and had to explain to her that since she didn't respond within 4 days, I booked with someone else. Originally Posted by RedLeg505

Yes see now imo that type of behavior is completely unacceptable. This is a case of a lady who thinks that just because she is popular her hoohaa is made out of gold and of course every gentleman who contacts her will sit on his hands and wait 10 years to see her. This life is all about compromise and give and take and it seems to me like she's taking more than she is willing to give. Even when I do reply hours or a day later I do feel a lil bad and usually add a joke like you can punish me later, or something like that. Lame but it usually makes the gents chuckle and all is right with the world again.


But seriously 6 days man? Then has the nerve to tell you she has you booked? Okay. And maybe I don't understand their situation but still....feel like ima pay for this comment after ladies read it but oh well so goes life.

Some guys only give me about a hour tops to respond. Usually I don't just sit around staring at my phone unless I'm REALLY bored that day. Most of the time I'm busy, but I do try to get back with them within 2-3 hours (sometimes a lot sooner). I really think the impatient guys are the ones that REALLY REALLY need to see a girl A-SAP.

I had a guy cancel a 2-hour set with me because he didn't get my response to his text. He booked about 10 hours in advance for a late night meeting. He asked were my photos really me and I responded with "Yes" and sent another photo to prove it. Well apparently this guy has the only cell phone in the South that does NOT accept photos, so my message never got to him (and I had no idea he didn't get it). A few hours later I asked were we still on and he said "Oh sorry, you never responded so i called another girl."

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