"Trick baby"

So wait, the hypothetical premise is that there's a fertile woman who has lots and lots of sex and who takes no precautions against getting pregnant (lets for the sake of this hypothetical question even assume she is somehow avoiding STDs) because she'd rather just go get an abortion when the inevitable happens?

I won't judge her broadly, as wrong as that behavior sounds to me. That said, we all get to (have to?) judge when it comes to who we choose to associate with.

I would not knowingly and willingly choose to have anything to do with any woman, provider or not, who would adopt that strategy for a wide array of what I think are very good reasons.

I don't feel that way about all situations involving abortions, but this particular scenario as described, no-brainer.
Yes, I would have an issue if a provider made abortion a casual procedure. Yes, I would not want to see her.
There is the "slip" I got pregnant what do I do now and there is the "habit" I got pregnant again, so here I go back to planned parenthood.
I have more respect for the women who kept their baby and still provide, although are now more careful.
I have more respect for the women who kept their baby and still provide, although are now more careful. Originally Posted by cactus fruit

And of course you'd respect her even more if she kept your baby right?
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  • 04-06-2014, 05:32 PM
And of course you'd respect her even more if she kept your baby right? Originally Posted by Listener
And it only took 37 paternity tests to find the culprit!
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How do I feel about a woman that uses abortion as birth control?

I despise her.

I strongly feel that decisions about abortion is something that should only be between a woman and her doctor and the state should stay the fuck out of that decision. I also feel that when mistakes happen abortion is definitely the lesser evil than bringing an unwanted child into the world.

But

A woman who has repeatedly gotten pregnant through irresponsibility or deliberately gotten pregnant to play some sick game with a guy and then gets her umpteenth abortion gives validity to the arguments that those ignorant right-to-life assholes cite.
This took a weird turn...

Do women who casually use abortion as birth control actually exist? I just figured they were some apparition of the right, but I could be wrong. I THINK I'm more right, but I have a history of naivety.
And it only took 37 paternity tests to find the culprit! Originally Posted by Toyz
I thought so too but according to these ladies it would very simple to figure out the baby daddy. I don't know enough about cycles whether they be women's or lunar to argue the point.
How do I feel about a woman that uses abortion as birth control?

I despise her.

I strongly feel that decisions about abortion is something that should only be between a woman and her doctor and the state should stay the fuck out of that decision. I also feel that when mistakes happen abortion is definitely the lesser evil than bringing an unwanted child into the world.

But

A woman who has repeatedly gotten pregnant through irresponsibility or deliberately gotten pregnant to play some sick game with a guy and then gets her umpteenth abortion gives validity to the arguments that those ignorant right-to-life assholes cite. Originally Posted by Rogue_Gent
+ 1

And yes, JL there are women who do this.
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This took a weird turn...

Do women who casually use abortion as birth control actually exist? I just figured they were some apparition of the right, but I could be wrong. I THINK I'm more right, but I have a history of naivety. Originally Posted by JennsLolli
Sadly and disgustingly yes they do exist... While I think woman should have the right to do as they want with their bodies 100% ..BUT the ones who use abortions as birth control over and over again have a special place in hell I hope....I have ZERO respect for those animals
This is hilarious and yes lots of ho's have hobby baby's not me of course I'm sterile and no time of the month
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I fully support a woman's right to make her own decisions regarding her body, however using abortion as a means of birth control, in or out of the hobby, is a sign of major irresponsibility. Originally Posted by Johnny Tightlips
Agreed.

There are way better, cheaper, easier means to avoid getting pregnant than having the abortion clinic on speed dial. Originally Posted by Johnny Tightlips
As well as cheaper and less of a physical ordeal. I've known perfectly healthy women who had abortions. It plays havoc with the woman's body. That's why I, like JL, am a little astounded that women use abortion as a regular form of birth control, or as a way to play mind games with a sexual partner. It seems like a lot to go through on any kind of regular basis.

Anal, nature's condom... Originally Posted by Martianman
Nut in the butt to avoid the gut
Too bad anal doesn't protect against STDs, quite the contrary as there's a greater chance of blood exchange with the thinner tissue and tighter friction.
REDACTED--In retrospect, my initial comment was without taste or humor and could offend some.

So, enjoy the blank space as I am speechless, for once, anyway.
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That's why I, like JL, am a little astounded that women use abortion as a regular form of birth control, or as a way to play mind games with a sexual partner. Originally Posted by Centaur
That should have read some women. Every woman I've ever known who had or considered having an abortion and confided the fact to me did not take the decision lightly in the least.
REDACTED--In retrospect, my initial comment was without taste or humor and could offend some.

So, enjoy the blank space as I am speechless, for once, anyway. Originally Posted by BugleBoy
Good one
Well I know I'm late on the topic but wanted to drop my two cents. First cent- I think like it's has been previously said that it's the woman's body and no one has the right to tell her what to do with it. Better aborted the born and neglected and become a child lost in the system ( again this is just my thoughts).
2nd cent- I feel there should be a law against continued abortions. Don't know what the number should be but after you reach it should be mandated you have your tubes tied. Like we all know abortion isn't a form of birth control.
Dang nabbits one more thing like Jennlols said and some other nothing is 100% but abstinence oh and anal sex lol. So it's possible even though everyone points out they don't do BBFS. So I wouldn't be the quick to judge her unless she tries to say it mine. Sorry I'm shooting blanks have been fixed for over a year now ;-)