You might JUST BE a Misogynist if ...

24) Instills or does not instill (pending on your view point) some kind of humor into a dead serious topic on a hoogar board



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24) Instills or does not instill (pending on your view point) some kind of humor into a dead serious topic on a hoogar board


25) Originally Posted by fun2come

#25.) Thinks that any topic other than hobby safety or health related issues on a hoogar board is dead serious just because a certain provider might take it seriously. Ooops no that would be the White Knight thread.

#26.)

ok back to original intent of defining what might constitute someone who/
You might JUST BE a Misogynist if ...

#26) you do not give a shit about women

Now that would be an extreme form IMHO

Yes, misogyny is more of a doing thing and less of a being thing. Hey, you work with what you're given and I worked within the framework provided. Yes, there is a spectrum of misogyny. Microaggressions that may seem normal to both the giver and the receiver on one end yet that still perpetuate dangers of misogyny, violence against women on the other. Yes, misogyny is often less visible to men than women, simply because male privilege is a thing, that exists. Yes, there are also privileges attached to being a woman (I don't have to carry heavy things often and I can get paid for sex), but since we're living in a patriarchy, it is what it is.

Feminism is not a dirty word. ChelseaBean and I didn't invent these ideas, examples of misogyny, or the language to describe it. I was excited that a male started such a thread, but this forum and its active members seem resistant to the topic, so moving on...I guess.

Sex work probably breeds a certain level of misogyny. The concept of sex for money skews the normal male female power dynamic. It places a higher degree of power in the woman's hands and a lot of men don't like that. This assumes the sex work isn't coerced of course.

When men feel disempowered at the hands of women, they respond in varying ways; violence, condescension, appearance insults, questioning her intelligence. They become angry when their money isn't sufficient to control providers in a way they demand.

This is all in theory though. I'm sure none of the women who participate in this forum have experienced any of those things.

When men feel disempowered at the hands of women, they respond in varying ways; violence, condescension, appearance insults, questioning her intelligence. They become angry when their money isn't sufficient to control providers in a way they demand. Originally Posted by FloridaShark

Er, that's a mighty broad brush your painting with there. I'm 100% sure what you describe happens. But I think you're putting the cart before the horse. Only an insecure sexist dipshit would stoop to the level you describe, IMHO.

With the exception of Amore (Doesn't count) the girls didn't derail the guys threads. Originally Posted by Listener

14) Not understanding that the co-ed forum is a forum for discussion open to anyone and everyone within the hobby. Originally Posted by JennsLolli

yes comments in a thread that are about/ON topic/within the thread theme are Not in fact a derailing or attempt to derail a thread. seriously.

#27) if you use verbal abuse or manipulate a situation with the intent of controlling someone or in an effort to punish them, and then offer to be their savoir if they submit/beg forgiveness/suck up or in anyway kiss your ass

#28) if you enjoy/ravel in the verbal abuse and manipulation of women and instigate this power play often

#29) if you actually believe you are the hobby savoir but all you ever do is try to "ruin" or run off providers on the board who don't take your personal brand abuse

Sex work probably breeds a certain level of misogyny. The concept of sex for money skews the normal male female power dynamic. It places a higher degree of power in the woman's hands and a lot of men don't like that. This assumes the sex work isn't coerced of course.

When men feel disempowered at the hands of women, they respond in varying ways; violence, condescension, appearance insults, questioning her intelligence. They become angry when their money isn't sufficient to control providers in a way they demand.

This is all in theory though. I'm sure none of the women who participate in this forum have experienced any of those things. Originally Posted by FloridaShark

i think quite a few guys put this theory into practice and exercise the hell out of it. what you described isn't uncommon

Er, that's a mighty broad brush your painting with there. I'm 100% sure what you describe happens. But I think you're putting the cart before the horse. Only an insecure sexist dipshit would stoop to the level you describe, IMHO. Originally Posted by Centaur

a Misogynist insecure sexist dipshit.....
you can be more then one thing you example is an example insecure and sexist and a dipshit...lol

Ms. Amore,
I somewhat disagree with your 3 items. Those actions are taken irregardless of the intended targets' sex. So what would be the correct term myso-human? It is equal-opportunity hatred.

Perhaps we can have a "You might just be a Philogynist" thread.

From Wikipedia: "The counterpart of misogyny is misandry, the hatred or dislike of men; the antonym of misogyny is philogyny, the love or fondness of women."

#23.) Someone who points out to a certain provider that she may have a bit of a problem recognizing tongue in cheek self deprecating humor but that's OK as I believe most everyone else here got it.

In reviewing my posts at no point do I see anything other a light hearted banter from a monger who clearly does not take himself or the board too seriously.

At no point was I remotely upset let alone close to losing my shit. I would say you are a bit slow on the uptake but that would just be my misogynist speaking lol.

#24) ... Originally Posted by Listener

you are absolutely right. I re-read that and did misinterpret. Can I admit to having too much white wine and skimming through... My apologies, Listener. Although, I don't think it should be part of the list. I will cop to being mildly annoyed with all the "hookers in blackface" threads, as I call them now, but no matter. I do think the list format is very fun and amusing. Carry on. Heavy-handedness ceasing....now.

#30. You tell every lady you bring to your house, "Bitch, go make me a sammich".....then berate her for being a good-fer-nothing and feel smug doing it.

#31 ...

you are absolutely right. I re-read that and did misinterpret. Can I admit to having too much white wine and skimming through... My apologies, Listener. Although, I don't think it should be part of the list. I will cop to being mildly annoyed with all the "hookers in blackface" threads, as I call them now, but no matter. I do think the list format is very fun and amusing. Carry on. Heavy-handedness ceasing....now. Originally Posted by chelseabean

"Hookers in Black Face"

That's awesome CB. You figured out the clues too, huh?

I say it was Miss Scarlett, in the Bedroom, with a Doggy Bone.

( The above is a whimsical play on words motivated by the game "clue")

3.) You think every hooker's eyes bulge out like a cartoon characters at just the mention of money and think she imagines every client to be walking dollar sign as opposed to a fully functioning human being who also happens to be a client and a source of income for her. (I watch a lot of bugs bunny)

4. You fully recognize that the acronym IOP exists for a reason and is part of what guys consider when writing a review but still participate in the many variations of the "hookers can't be trusted because they lie about the very thing you are paying them to give the illusion of...." debate, used loosely. Damned if you do, damned if you don't . Originally Posted by chelseabean

High volume girls dont give two shits about the client,, pay me my money and hurry up and nut.

IOP.. that is a joke.... unless you really hit it off, its all acting , part of the job
why do you think its called a 'Trick'

like 'you' are really into some middle aged fat fuk?? sweating all over you??

"Hookers in Black Face"

That's awesome CB. You figured out the clues too, huh?

I say it was Miss Scarlett, in the Bedroom, with a Doggy Bone.

( The above is a whimsical play on words motivated by the game "clue") Originally Posted by Toyz

Are you gonna explain every joke to me now, douche-ALSO, a whimsical play on words.

High volume girls dont give two shits about the client,, pay me my money and hurry up and nut.

I think you guys largely over-estimate volume in most cases. Also, just a big assumption about what she gives two shits about. Also, you can like someone as a human being and also be ready to done with your job. My point was the whole crassly imagined lack of nuance.

IOP.. that is a joke.... unless you really hit it off, its all acting , part of the job
why do you think its called a 'Trick'

For the same reason, the first word in the acronym is illusion, I imagine.

like 'you' are really into some middle aged fat fuk?? sweating all over you?? Originally Posted by RALPHEY BOY

Hence the word "illusion", hon.

Are you gonna explain every joke to me now, douche-ALSO, a whimsical play on words. Originally Posted by chelseabean

No, I in fully realize you are a hoogar with limited abilities to separate joking from serious banter...so I will only explain when I Think you will get it...

BTW the poke in my response was NOT at all at you, but you obviously didn't get that.