I always ask if a man wants to freshen up, "feel free to freshen up. There are clean towels and men's soap for you to use." They are clear as day to see which ones they are - the folded up towel with the folded in half wash cloth sitting on top of it. As for the soap? It says, "dove - men." Originally Posted by Alyssa MarieThat's perfect then I've been in women's bathrooms with dirty towels laying on the floor and crap on the counter and I was afraid to touch anything in there, and I've been in women's bathrooms that were so immaculate that.... I was afraid to touch anything in there I have never had a woman do what you describe above, but I would be VERY impressed if she did, so kudos to you
Sometimes we do, if we've been doing something that would get our hands dirty anyway. But regarding your comment about not washing hands after peeing at your place, I can't speak for everyone but before I see a lady I go through a ritual of shaving downstairs, face, chest and stomach (I'm not that hairy anyway, but might as well get it out of the way); showering while scrubbing downstairs very thoroughly; trimming eyebrows, nose hair, ear hair; putting on clean briefs and clothes; brush teeth and tongue; spraying a small spritz of cologne (usually they can't smell it unless they snuggle into my neck) and then I'm on my way with the A/C on in my car to make sure I don't sweat on the trip. So when I get there I am clean as a whistle. If I were to pee at your place I probably wouldn't wash my hands because A) my penis is probably cleaner than my hands anyway, B) I do not pee on my hands, not even close and C) if I were to wash my hands then there's that awkward decision of trying to decide which of your towels are clean and not just for display and if I'm going to insult you by using a towel without asking. That said, if it's a big deal to you then I would certainly not be offended (and I doubt any other guys would be either) if you said "I hope you don't mind, but could you please wash your hands before we begin? Feel free to use the XYZ (whichever) towel, it is clean and I put it there just for you." Any guy that cares about his cleanliness will be more than happy to accommodate you, most of us want you to be as happy and comfortable in the session as we are Originally Posted by RideFreeInTexas
That's perfect then I've been in women's bathrooms with dirty towels laying on the floor and crap on the counter and I was afraid to touch anything in there, and I've been in women's bathrooms that were so immaculate that.... I was afraid to touch anything in there I have never had a woman do what you describe above, but I would be VERY impressed if she did, so kudos to you
And you're right, the response was really meant for JP, I thought you had made both posts so sorry about that! Originally Posted by RideFreeInTexas