Why do escorts hate texts?

I HATE texting.

I do not provide my phone number until after screening, so I am usually able to curb those time wasters.

I prefer email/PM as an initial contact. Once I have done my proper screening, my number goes out. I STILL require the gent to call me.

I can get a sense of personality and whether or not we will actually click while face to face. (I am not just interested in the wham bam thank you ma'ams, but rather enjoy leisurely type of dates with men.)

For those that have seen me before, they know they CAN text me (as like what was stated above, "Are you available for me to call you" type of texts are ok.)
And I will work with the gent (one I have seen BCD previous) if he can not talk via phone, and texting is his only means of communication, at that moment.

I agree with the other statements about talking to me like a human being. And to be honest, I don't mind flirting a bit, but it turns me off with the vulgar what you are going to do to me type of messages. (even from previous friends)

Show me better than you can tell me!

But then I am an odd duck and mentally stimulated conversations about things OTHER than sex, gets me going.

*curtsy*

~Genesis Nicole~

I'm going to echo what Nicole just so eloquently stated.

Briefly,
Texting is fine with me as long as I already know the gentleman who is sending the message.

I also reserve my number for gentlemen I have already screened so I don't have to play "who is this?" games which no one really has time for.
Still I do prefer when a gentleman says "hey it's XXX, how are you?" or something to let me know who I am speaking to.

Texts are more discreet when I'm out with friends or family and can't/don't take phone calls.

I'm new to this and still haven't went through the process of seeing a escort, I'm a little paranoid to calling and speaking to a escort due to a potential problem that can arise. Originally Posted by bankai

Seriously!!! ???

bankai
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Join Date: Jul 18, 2012
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imo, you need to "get with the program." If you are seriously interested in hobbying, look for a few of the "newby friendly" providers and climb on board. Or at the very least, join preferred411.com !

they don't know who you are. you could be anyone

best thing if you are new to this is find a newbie friendly provider and message her, or get P411 or something

you gotta build up your cred in this game

I don't see it all much different than email ... if you're going to text someone introduce yourself properly, your intentions (not explicit) and any screening and/or other relevant info about yourself on the first go. I don't answer 'hey/hi/r u avail/wassup' bs like that or entertain a bazillion texts. I'm text friendly not a text buddy/companion.

I don't answer 'hey/hi/r u avail/wassup' bs like that or entertain a bazillion texts. I'm text friendly not a text buddy/companion. Originally Posted by MOCHAakaMOCHA

Same here.
You don't only receive bs texts on a cell,
you can also receive bs emails just the same.

Stupid texts are ignored and blocked the same as a stupid/silly email. The delete key is my friend

its just I like to converse with who is coming to my house. I have no clue who is on the other end but sometimes a friendly voice is better than a script. When people blow up my phone with txt messages usually its only the people who call who actually come and are serious.

%100 true how Vanessa explained it. I don't do business via texting. I need to hear the man's voice. If I sense he has an attitude problem and might cause trouble, then I hang up. TEXTING IS A HUGE TIME WASTER. I HATE IT!!

its just I like to converse with who is coming to my house. I have no clue who is on the other end but sometimes a friendly voice is better than a script. When people blow up my phone with txt messages usually its only the people who call who actually come and are serious. Originally Posted by vanessa_london

%100 true how Vanessa explained it. I don't do business via texting. I need to hear the man's voice. If I sense he has an attitude problem and might cause trouble, then I hang up. TEXTING IS A HUGE TIME WASTER. I HATE IT!! Originally Posted by Tina_Fontaine

Aye Aye! *raising my spot of tea to both you Dolls!*

I'm new to this and still haven't went through the process of seeing a escort, I'm a little paranoid to calling and speaking to a escort due to a potential problem that can arise.What kind of potential problems?

Anyways I usually send texts and most escorts kinda respond like this.

Me" Incall or Outcall for _____ session?Where have you seen my ad? What does it say?
Them" xxxxx amount of dollars Check my ad
Me" What does that include? What does my menu said?
Them" ________Please, read the ad or look at the showcase. Most of the time you're not going to book because, you're not interested enough to read about me prior to contacting me. LOL!

Me"

That's the conversation right there? There is not a conversation. Mostly, you probably don't get much response because, she is already booked via eccie or P411 or someone called and had been verified that he is not an LE.

Honestly I don't even want to talk to escorts about location or anything but I want to get a feel for what's going to happen before I get there. What does it matters before you get there. What does matter is what is happening when you're there. Does that make sense?

I don't know why seem to be very short when you ask a couple questions. Call is better than text. Don't you think a woman would like someone is texting her asking all of these questions without hearing a voice? How about a person who is texting is not who it is saying he is? Like a wife may be or a girl friend or better yet PO PO.

I know some so that is not all the same.. girls charge for 30 and when you get there it's not what you expected, I expect something along the lines of GFE without the _______ touching and DATY but everything else is a go. GFE IS about touching and DATY without those two it is not a GFE.

I like tits and like to kiss them, like a slim woman and like to touch but these women are very short and don't want to get into details at all. Originally Posted by bankai

I like penis, too!. I don't get to see it unless he is passed my screening.

I am just showing you of how I would perceived it if you were communicating with me. So, it is a two way street. Nothing wrong about wanting to know and what you like to know before you get there. But if you're searching for the provider please, do read their profile and showcase info. It will help you and eliminate your frustration and hers.

its just I like to converse with who is coming to my house. I have no clue who is on the other end but sometimes a friendly voice is better than a script. When people blow up my phone with txt messages usually its only the people who call who actually come and are serious. Originally Posted by vanessa_london

Exactly!

well speaking as a Newbie not all providers keep the same rate at any given price can go up or down and outcalls seem never to be a set price i seen called "donations" or roses so that's easy enough to figure out and yes never ever bring up services that's considered solicitation and most likely she think your affiliated with law enforcement or just really new to this be ready for her to ask you some questions like how old are you your full name and maybe even your facebook or even have text her a picture of yourself holding your id now on my end unless it was a trusted provider on here i would send her a pic but tell i would show my id in person only providers have to make sure your legit and normal not some crazy person and or a time waster local girls are the best not downing you outcalls ladies i have had good outcall too it seems to be more work is all.

Just thinking about also how I'd rather get a wife/girlfriend's crazy text or email and block those than her crazy phone call yelling expletives in my ear first (and hanging up aggravated w/ a headache). Good times.

Text can be a beautiful hobby tool is used wisely. Not so much with reputable ladies here unless they are touring, or text friendly. Texting in and of itself is more of a younger ladies game and specialty age 20 to 28. Besides some obvious time wasters.......some (ladies/pimps) dont like or prefer text simply because spelling isnt their strong point,.......or most phones now dont have a quetery keyboard so most ladies have to respond back by pushing their phone screen and some of the polished manicured ones with long nails I like find it a tad difficult to respond. The key is being abbreviated yet concise, and allowing her to take control of her answers yet communicating in a non threatning way thats not too forward. Text can be timely for some ladies.....yet convient for others. Choose wisely. More on how to send this later...

HERE'S THE PERFERRED CRITERIA FOR TEXTING A REPUTABLE INDEPENDENT: (let's start first with what you need beforehand)

1. Have an alternate means of quick verification

A.) I.e........a p411 ID or datecheck.

B.) A hobbyboard profile (such as eccie, TER, etc) that also has reviews attached to your profile.

2. Make sure you are booking for that day/night. If she touring and arriving in two days or less texting in advance is ok....but same rules apply below.

3. Make sure you intend to confirm with her via phone verbally after she books you. By then your conversation will be less "businessey" and more about pleasure and confirmation.

4. Two text minimum for your initial requests. 160 characters per text limit also. Anything more than two text is just too thirsty and weird.

5. A slight excuse as to why you are texting...........as opposed to her normal means of. contact. Include this in the second text.

5a.) Resonable excuse. Make one lol.

I.) "I'm@work N surrounded by others N cant speak verbally@dis time2book but I will2confirm later on my break. If ur able2acccommodate please respond as Ii have a small window of availiability today. I'm seeking (outcall/incall) (today/tonight). DO NOT INCLUDE ANYTHING SPECIFIC LIKE TIMES. LET HER FEEL AS IF SHE IS IN CONTROL. LET HER DOMINATE THE SPECIFICS.

II.) "I could not locate reviews, rates, and service info I require 2 secure a booking with you. If ur able2acccommodate by responding please respond. I'm seeking (outcall/incall) today/tonight."

III.)"Have limited web access 2ur page currently.Can't see any info on ur website.Is it permissable if I ask U Dis info here? I don't want2violate ur screening ettiquette. The more elaborate the excuse the more correctly spelled words you will need. Lol

IV.) "Please text first before you call so I can make sure I'm in a secure place to respond. I'm surrounded be family and trying to book discreetly."

EXAMPLE OF WHAT YOUR TEXT MESSAGE INQUIRY SHOULD INCLUDE. (Her name so she knows its not spam, her rates, if she allows kissing and what are her rules.

"Candy, I have current references and p411. What R ur rates? Do U allow kissing? What r ur service restrictions within D realms of normal GFE service.R U available@............Thanks" Insert excuse and text pity stuff via your second text.

HOW SHE MIGHT RESPOND.....and how you should reply

1. Her: " Just CALL me when you can." (She probably assumes you aren't booking or just fishing.....or she doesn't have time to respond via text honestly.)

1a.) You:"Okay ma'am. I may not be able to contact you safely well in advance of an appointment time when I am availiable to talk verbally. I thank you for your consideration and I will seek another option, if needed." This lets her know you are serious about booking and lends more credibility to your text preference. She might assume it will be a missed oppurtunity for money later and may respond more to assist you. (help you/secure your booking)

2. Her: "Sorry I don't discuss info via text."

2a.) You: "Ok. Ma'am, I usually get info via text N don't speak of it again via phone R wen we meet.Thought a text wouldBmore gentlmanly and respectful than asking U n person like a cop would usually do2secure an arrest via voice record. A text mightBdeemed as inadmissable, less risky." If she responds saying stuff to the contrary....that's fine. Her exchanging text with you is making her more manuverable to assist you. Or she will just simply say no. The key is making her respond comfortably so you can use that response as an oppurtunity to be more forward in your next responsee.......so you do BBBJ.....is swallowing ok as well. See...........

I love text messages, once you PM me here or on P411, they are my preferred method of contact.

I prefer them because unlike a call, I can answer them at anytime. A lot of times I simply can't answer my phone in the presence of others.