Good for you Laura! I haven't had a ton of experience in the hobby but I have found that most of the younger providers 'generally' use spit vs. lube or saliva. Another reason why I generally prefer mature 24+ providers vs. the younger ones. The use of saliva is a sure sign of experience in the BJ department for me.
Usually I prefer saliva to lube, so I will quietly spit on my fingers lol and get my girlie parts wet, if I'm not already soaked from DATY. I am not a huge fan of being spit on, unless the type of play dictates it. To me, spitting seems to be more like porn.
If I'm playing with my toys or on the rare occasions I do anal, then lube is a must.
Originally Posted by Laura Lynn