NCNS (No Call No Show) is the most disrespectful thing you can do to someone in the hobby. Some guys schedule weeks in advance, take off work to hobby or plan their entire day around a session. You mean to tell me that a provider can't take 30 seconds to call, text or email that she can't make it. I don't care if its a lie but you need to tell me something. I expect better TCB from someone charging 300 for a session. Some provide don't take the hobby serious and could care less about wasting your time.
Originally Posted by atxguy2006
I feel like I have to weigh in about the above comment, in support I assure you.
Not long ago, there was a young lady who provided some personal services for me and my family (not the provider type of service). I had prepaid for several hours of her work, when one day she was brutally attacked and left for dead. One of the first things she did after she woke up in the hospital and got her wits about her was send me a text to let me know that she couldn't finish the contract and offering me a refund. I refused the refund, of course, and even sent her a bit more to help with her medical bills, as she was a sole proprietor. If she ever gets to the point she can work again, supposedly I'm the first person she will call.
Now ladies, if she can do that in that situation, certainly there's nothing short of something similar happening to you (God forbid), that should ever cause you to NCNS a guy. Same goes for us guys. If you can't call to cancel right away, at least, have the courtesy to do so at a convenient time and apologize, profusely. Explain what happened and express a desire to make it up to the other person.
It's the human thing to do.