To the OP, you realize that chicks on here aren't looking for FWB. I'm sure you do realize that. And why would you want a dude's advice on how to get a FWB relationship on this site? 90% of the dudes on here have no clue how to get laid without an ATM card.
On a more comical note, I never thought being 40 years old and 5'10" and 200 lbs would be sexy to chicks even though you are considered good looking in your mind. Short dudes are funny.
- Lucas McCain
- 09-12-2014, 05:00 AM
- Prime Time
- 09-12-2014, 05:07 AM
- Guest062217
- 09-12-2014, 05:35 AM
- Wakeup
- 09-12-2014, 06:02 AM
I've had a few of these, and there's nothing wrong with them as long as you're both clear on the boundaries...the one constant in all of them...they find you, you never go looking for them...
If I call them, I'm paying, if they call me, I'm not...
If I call them, I'm paying, if they call me, I'm not...
- Guest062217
- 09-12-2014, 06:21 AM
I've had a few of these, and there's nothing wrong with them as long as you're both clear on the boundaries...the one constant in all of them...they find you, you never go looking for them...OP - WU has a very good point there....they will find you.
If I call them, I'm paying, if they call me, I'm not... Originally Posted by Wakeup
Not all Cats are Lions...but all Lions are Cats...
- ObyDATY
- 09-12-2014, 06:34 AM
I've had a few of these, and there's nothing wrong with them as long as you're both clear on the boundaries...the one constant in all of them...they find you, you never go looking for them...Wake Up is correct in that the boundaries have to be explicit, not implied.
If I call them, I'm paying, if they call me, I'm not... Originally Posted by Wakeup
I've had 2 long term FWB, both are married, both 'found' me. I've tried the unmarried FWB and at some point it gets awkward, never had an issue with the married ones.
FWB 1, husband works offshore, 2 weeks offshore and 2 weeks home. He's a lazy fatass and doesn't do shit when he's home. She's outgoing, doesn't work, goes to the gym 5 days a week and loves to party. Late 30's and the kids are all in college. She comes by 3-5 times a week, even when he's in town.
FWB 2, mid 40's, married to a guy 15 or so years older. She's the pretty, exstripper, party kind of girl. Doesn't get it at home enough, likes to drink at lunch with her girlfriends and stops by before she goes home. Always good for a late Friday afternoon romp or late night on her way home from girls night out.
There are a lot of women in similar situations. Don't go out looking to get laid, talk to women as if you are looking for a friend. Have fun, find out where they go, hang out, find them out in public a few times. It will all come together. They will breach the subject first if they are looking.
- Wakeup
- 09-12-2014, 09:09 AM
That sound like you're trying to be a player...
Don't be...when you're texting them about hummus and white bread and they text back, "hey, come over and fuck me, no strings attached", that's it...don't try to go looking...
When you try to be a player, you buy hair products like Garnier Fructis Sleek...
When you buy hair products like Garnier Fructis Sleek, you don't realize it's flammable...
When you don't realize it's flammable, you bend over to kiss her hand near the candle at dinner and catch your head on fire...
When you catch your head on fire, Michael Jackson's Estate sues you for trademark infringement...
Don't try to be a player...
Don't be...when you're texting them about hummus and white bread and they text back, "hey, come over and fuck me, no strings attached", that's it...don't try to go looking...
When you try to be a player, you buy hair products like Garnier Fructis Sleek...
When you buy hair products like Garnier Fructis Sleek, you don't realize it's flammable...
When you don't realize it's flammable, you bend over to kiss her hand near the candle at dinner and catch your head on fire...
When you catch your head on fire, Michael Jackson's Estate sues you for trademark infringement...
Don't try to be a player...
- boardman
- 09-12-2014, 09:12 AM
It ain't that hard OP.
There are plenty of women out there that like a good dicking every now and then but don't want to deal with the stress and drama of an everyday relationship.
You don't need game and you don't have to be super hot.
Just be real and don't be a dick. Introduce yourself to women you are attracted to and make easy conversation. Make her laugh. If you can do that you'll at least get a phone #.
Once you have the # you've got probably a 25% chance of getting laid. Just make it clear up front that you may need it more than them and you might have other FWB's. If she'll accept that then you are good to go. If not keep looking...and by all means if you tell her you are going to give her a good dicking make sure you do it to her satisfaction.
Always play safe...
There are plenty of women out there that like a good dicking every now and then but don't want to deal with the stress and drama of an everyday relationship.
You don't need game and you don't have to be super hot.
Just be real and don't be a dick. Introduce yourself to women you are attracted to and make easy conversation. Make her laugh. If you can do that you'll at least get a phone #.
Once you have the # you've got probably a 25% chance of getting laid. Just make it clear up front that you may need it more than them and you might have other FWB's. If she'll accept that then you are good to go. If not keep looking...and by all means if you tell her you are going to give her a good dicking make sure you do it to her satisfaction.
Always play safe...
- Sonya
- 09-12-2014, 09:16 AM
Become a Dom. Find submissives who only say yes and please. Tell them they will be yours and you will do as you wish.
- futile
- 09-12-2014, 11:36 AM
Like OP, lately I have been looking for FWBs online. It is not easy process. Most of the time, it does not go beyond snapchat or skype. You do find interesting people sometimes. But any of you guys who just want good laid with little time to spend, should stick with eccie. Ladies here are experts.
I am not looking for free pussy. I am just looking for the hunt. I am in my 30s and younger part of me miss the hunt back in old days. I am better equipped for a good hunt but requirment of discretion due my age and status becomes the problem. I am like a cheetah, I only like to attack the prey that runs. A provider in a small motel room is too easy to catch, unless you ladies like to run around the bed
A few months ago, I got one agreed to meet me at a hotel at westside. I worked very hard for that. However, I backed out since she is married person and honestly, I lost interest a couple of days after she agreed to meet. But I enjoyed hunting, I just did not make the kill By the way, you will almost never find single ladies who will agree to FWB since they are looking for long term. Married ones are the players. Most of them are not in shape, mind you.
I am not looking for free pussy. I am just looking for the hunt. I am in my 30s and younger part of me miss the hunt back in old days. I am better equipped for a good hunt but requirment of discretion due my age and status becomes the problem. I am like a cheetah, I only like to attack the prey that runs. A provider in a small motel room is too easy to catch, unless you ladies like to run around the bed
A few months ago, I got one agreed to meet me at a hotel at westside. I worked very hard for that. However, I backed out since she is married person and honestly, I lost interest a couple of days after she agreed to meet. But I enjoyed hunting, I just did not make the kill
By the way, you will almost never find single ladies who will agree to FWB since they are looking for long term. Married ones are the players. Most of them are not in shape, mind you.
- Guest062217
- 09-12-2014, 11:50 AM
Sounds to me like you have an SO...but still want the "thrill of the chase" per se...
Do you also like juggling chainsaws, skydiving with only one parachute and playing russian roulette?
I'm not trying to "f" with you...just trying to say that if you want to F civilians and you have an SO...it isn't a question of "if" you will get caught...it's "when" you will get caught....
If you're smart you will stick with providers...maybe pay a lil extra for roll play and have them meet you at a bar ahead of time - walk in act like you're picking up on her so it strokes your "I can still pick up chicks ego"...
But stick with providers dude...trust me.
Thank god I'm single...
Do you also like juggling chainsaws, skydiving with only one parachute and playing russian roulette?
I'm not trying to "f" with you...just trying to say that if you want to F civilians and you have an SO...it isn't a question of "if" you will get caught...it's "when" you will get caught....
If you're smart you will stick with providers...maybe pay a lil extra for roll play and have them meet you at a bar ahead of time - walk in act like you're picking up on her so it strokes your "I can still pick up chicks ego"...
But stick with providers dude...trust me.
Thank god I'm single...
- Wakeup
- 09-12-2014, 12:34 PM
Like OP, lately I have been looking for FWBs online.So...you're looking for fuck buddies online...but you want to pay for it, so it's not free...then you want to get them to ask you to fuck, and then turn walk away?
I am not looking for free pussy.
I am just looking for the hunt. Originally Posted by futile
OP...this entire post by futile is...
- futile
- 09-12-2014, 12:55 PM
You guys are exactly right. what can I do? I am waiting for me grow out of it. But it was fun sometimes with all these chatting, sharing and stuff. I had good experience with providers. I just don't think I am after just the sex. I am still trying to find out what I am after which seems to be changing very often. As a guy who went deep into this, I am just warning OP that FWB is overrated and process is so much time consuming. Unless he is after the process (the hunt), it is not what he wants.
- Guest062217
- 09-12-2014, 12:59 PM
Feel free to post or pm the married girls info...I'm sure she could use a good stiff one from someone who's not going to back out at the last minute...poor girl.
- Lauren Mayfair
- 09-12-2014, 01:28 PM
Some of you guys make this shit way too complicated.