There are probably hundreds of providers on this site that never (or very rarely) have a problem with anybody. They post ads, they provide good quality sessions, they post relevant content. They don't go looking for fights and controversy. They treat what they do as a business and rely in some part on eccie to function as a tool for their business. I'm not sure what providers are "talked to and treated like trash" that you're referring to but if you could point out a few examples I would be curious to see that provider's history.
Originally Posted by L.A.
due to a conversation i had with a moderator recently i can not respond to this in public or private. unless i could trust the other member ... but in this case it's wise to just let it be
this site was set up by a guy partially in response to the impending demise of ASPD.
there are only "ECCIE Forum Guidelines", no rules, no regulations.
http://www.eccie.net/announcement.php?f=5
".....You will find various other items of policy and procedure which address a variety of topics placed in various forums across the board. Please pay attention to the stickied threads in each of the forums you visit to prepare yourself for the guidelines which may exist for that forum in particular. What you see here are the basic fundamentals. If each of us commits ourselves to abiding by the basic posted guidelines provided, our community will continue to grow and thrive. As the saying goes, you get out of something what you put into it. In that respect, we ask that each individual member, including our staff, to display a common respect for those around you and make yourself aware and familiar with the guidelines set forth for the community.
Thanks in advance,
ECCIE Staff"
my opinion is that on the internet, esp anonymous sites on the internet, people act however they want to act - nice, decent, immature, disrespectful, downright hostile, whatever.
and whether or not you believe they are doing a "good job" at it, the moderators, administrators, and owner(s) are doing what they can and what they feel is the correct/appropriate application of the guidelines.
again my opinion, another aspect of this is how some men treat women in general and sex workers in particular. throughout ages, many men have treated women w/ little respect if not as chattel. look at how Mary Magdalene was treated in the bible. Look at what happened at the Salem Witch Trials. Look at what happened to those school girls kidnapped by Boku Harum (sp). Look at what the so-called Islamic State fighters are doing to women in Syria and Iraq and Turkey. Look at how women are treated in the USA in business, advertising, etc.
when some women become educated, gain power, or gain money (a form of power), some men dont like being upstaged, dont like losing power/money, etc. and then attack women, either specifically or generally.
throw in some anonymity and very lax application of consequences here in eccie, and it's no wonder why some guys act the way they do.
so, in my opinion, to think that people will behave in the most respectful manner here is to ignore history and to not think rationally.
to hope that they will act "nice" is laudable. to educate them about "nice" behavior is also laudable.
i think dallaswill and iaintliein said it best
* "The moral of the story, there are ppl who are rude, whether they know it or not. Don't let them drag you down."
* "It's always been a jungle out there, but the internet allows the claws to reach anywhere, anytime."
while that may be the thought of some guys, it doesnt read like you are stupid.
and pls dont paint all the other women on this site w/ that brush.
while i agree w/ your thought/opinion, there is "should" and there is "reality".
if you see something that you think is not in keeping w/ the guidelines, i suggest that you report it to a moderator, admin, and/or owner citing the specific guideline.
or just accept what you read here.
or ignore some of what you read here.
or leave.
your choice.
bottom line, do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
but dont be surprised [upset? yes] if someone does something "wrong".
Originally Posted by pmdelites
read... aknowledged, but it's allowing BS like this to happen that ends up creating the fucked up mind state that people have.
i'm a fighter it's what i do, i love sex but if my partner is a asshole it will reflect in my attitude lol
this is MANY girls lively hood, and because of that people get away with what they want just because some girls NEED the money.
I honestly don't care, with only seeing one person a day 22 days a month my life is easy, that on top of my IRL income lol i'll take a few blows to try to hope that maybe someone in the world will see that this is unacceptable.
i will say this, i may bend over because i love doggy but i'll NEVER bow down to the narcssistic dicks that seem to control this board. You can't run me off because
1. most of the big talkers are cowards
2. the last one that tried it in person got shut down hard
3. and honestly everytime i make a post and watch it unravel people get to see some of these dicks for who they truly are, and honestly it's a start
as well as the history of the people treating them like trash.
Originally Posted by pmdelites
So because we aren't to take this site seriously we let men attack women and sometimes take advantage of them? I don't see how a woman thinks it's ok to take disrespect. Smh
This environment will only create more sickos
Originally Posted by lily blake
Lily this is going to be a lost battle, it goes further then ANY lady could fight...
out society has created an enviorment where this is okay, because people accept it. Positive note, thanks to you and a few others at least i know that not all everyone here is gonna sit and be a mindless zombie...
