How many people know about your "double life"?

I find it nice to have someone talk to every once in a while when things get stressful. Because they do get stressful lol. My driver is a female and an ex-roommate of mine. She's known since day one and always texts me on out calls to make sure I'm OK and always makes sure she knows where I am. Its nice knowing I always have someone watching my back, ans she's always there to lend an ear. But besides that I try to keep the two very, very, very seperate.
Amber Does's Avatar
im pretty open just because I dont like having to create a whole different story about some things. But I dont let too many people get close so I dont divuldge everything.

Most are ok with it even guys (but that ends quickly usually lol unless they are really open minded)
doctorisin's Avatar
i have MFM'd twice. those two jimmies know about my fondness for women of public usage... just those guys and GOOGLE. : )
Plastic Man's Avatar
Good question...I might actually have a triple life...there is "civilian" life...hobby life, and swinger life (with my stripper associations overlapping some and yet distinct in their own way).
I'm not sure I could put a solid number on it...many know some and a few know all...
My boss is generally aware...a handful of hobbyists have become friends above and beyond the hobby...I've been fairly candid with some of my dancer pals including a few who have no interest in dabbling. Some folks I've gotten to know through my friendship with Chloe who know of her world and that we met there...of course a few dancer/providers who have become friends.
My wife is aware of past hobby adventures and has become aware of my swinging...for a while there was a don't ask don't tell dynamic...more recently the issue is in contention....will see how things turn out... Originally Posted by MajorHands
thats beautifully ...fascinating

...you done built a ...hell of a life fer yerself!
Three...me, myself & Irene.
HlavinKitheri's Avatar
Google knows all. Other than that (and providers, and the bartender at the strip club who looks the other way) there are four guys, each of whom told me his adventures before I revealed mine.

Each guy thinks he is the only person in the world who knows: not one of them would ever even tell the other ones. (They're not especially close to each other anyway, and two don't even know any of the others.)

I prefer it that way: if one of them thought it was some kind of "open secret" he'd slip up eventually. Casting it a DEEP DARK secret impresses on them the need for utter silence on the topic.
Me and the one provider that see once or twice a month. This works for me - she takes great care of me . Don't need anything else or to share this information with anyone.

Great Relationship !
I only told 2 people just in case of an emergency.