Paid Vacation: How Sonya went to Australia and London

Would you invite an escort to go on vacation with you? Originally Posted by Sonya

Pay to bring sand to the beach.

I've done this. I posted on another thread. It was with a provider I had been seeing and still see. Long holiday weekend to a 5 star hotel in Carribean. First class air. I offered her $2000 and bought her nice clothing while we were at the destination. I treated her in a way that was respectful and really tried to make sure that she had an enjoyable time. Spa time with massages, manicure, pedicure. Pool and beach time and visiting the local cultural stuff. I think she felt that it was a real girlfriend experience. we had sex once or twice a day. It wasn't a fuckfest. I had a wonderful time and she told me that it was the trip of a lifetime for her. Hope to do this again but the vibe must be excellent.

I don't invite escorts to go on vacation with me...I invite friends to go on vacation with me. My friends' chosen vocation doesn't concern me...

That sounds like a great arrangement to me...vacation, air, open food/bar tab and some spending money...

Psychologically, I think it would feel better than..."I will go on vacation with you for $X amount" Originally Posted by SNL9933

Yep, that works, too. I've had such arrangements with 4 kind fellows, but they had spent quite a lot of time with me prior. Takes a while to build up that kind of trust. Between them, I saw Costa Rica, Vegas 3 times, St. Lucia, NYC twice, New Orleans, Key West, Hawaii 3 times, and Paris. Travel arrangements with several other gents did have more concrete "price tags." As I said, each situation warrants individual negotiation, and a lot depends on how long you have known each other and the rapport you've developed.

My beloved MontBGent from ECCIE (who has gone on to the next realm and hopefully has a naughty angel sitting on his lap playing his "harp") gave me spending money daily while traveling, and let me charge what I wanted to the hotel room. (Always nice resorts with excellent bars, restaurants, spas, and shopping, but I never took advantage of that. I always asked before I charged anything more than a meal.) At the end of each trip he would still give me an envelope, but we didn't discuss money and I never knew how much was inside. He was always generous.

During our first Vegas vacation he got me naked and prone on the bed and spread a substantial number of twenties and hundreds he had won gambling over my flesh, a scene right out of a movie with me giggling like a goofy girl, and when he had covered me up almost entirely, he took a photo. When he said that I could keep every bill on the bed, I about fell off it, stared at him agape, and asked him how much he had been drinking that night. He laughed and handed me my purse.

That man was an absolute gem, and I miss him still. Thinking of the "Live Science" thread elsewhere in Coed, I very well might have married him and be living in Florida now had he not passed unexpectedly.

Vacation?
What in hell is a vacation?

If I were to invite a provider on vacation with me a trip to let's say Hawaii or a cruise or such isn't enough compensation? Then no I wouldn't.

maybe for a very short trip, like an overnighter or at most two nights. But if longer than that I would want to sample the locals.

Are you required to go to the golf course every day,...

.................... or just every now and then? Originally Posted by LexusLover

I want a provider who will fuck on the golf course

I doubt expenses and gifts would be enough for most as providers have to eat too. Originally Posted by oilfieldscum

What???
We have to feed them, too? What do providers eat?

What do providers eat? Originally Posted by pyramider

Liquid protein......

A carpenter comes to my house to do small jobs and I pay him for each job. He is happy to do it because the pay helps to support his family of five. One day I decide I want a new house with a pool. I tell him I will purchase him the materials and provide his equipment to get the job done. He only has to work 4 days a week, and gets the other three off. On top of that, I give him 3 delicious meals a day and at least a 2hr break for lunch, in which he has a small garage apartment with a a bed, shower, cable tv, and air condition to retreat to. I even have a contractor come put out and set up the largest tent you have ever seen, so that he doesn't ever have to work in the sun. It will take him about 1 year to complete the work. I offer that once the job is done, I'll even let his family come play in the pool once a week for the next year. He has arguably the best work conditions he will ever come across in his lifetime. This job will definitely be a pleasure for him, and he will gain an amazing amount of strength, experience, and skill for having done so. At the same time, he has to sign a contract agreeing that he will not work any other job during this time period.

Should I pay him?

Hey! I'm "self-employed" too, I don't get a "paid vacation" either!
Anyone want to fly ME somewhere, pay for my room & board, activities, shopping AND give me what I usually earn in a day while we're on vacation?!?!?

Didn't think so...

I have been paid to go on an international vacation to Cabo San Lucas Mexico. The gent paid for my flight round trip, my one week stay at the resort (all inclusive), took me shopping for clothes before the trip, paid for my passport, bought me whatever I wanted every day, and also paid me three grand for my time. He offered everything, he even came up with the three grand donation. We had sex maybe once a day. The rest of our days were spent drinking margaritas, snorkeling, deep sea fishing, a dinner cruise and lots of other fun things. It is one of my best memories.

Back to supply and demand and available funds. If you can afford air/hotel/food/drinks/presents/ and donation....go for it.

If I go on vacation I go with friends or family because I don't want to think about work. When I go on vacation with friends, I don't care what they do for a living, and I don't pay for their trip.

If you go with a friend and she happens to have this as a job then so be it it's her choice. If you are asking her to go as a business venture....absolutely you should be paying for her time.

This discussion has too many variables to actually have one answer.

A carpenter comes to my house to do small jobs and I pay him for each job. He is happy to do it because the pay helps to support his family of five. One day I decide I want a new house with a pool. I tell him I will purchase him the materials and provide his equipment to get the job done. He only has to work 4 days a week, and gets the other three off. On top of that, I give him 3 delicious meals a day and at least a 2hr break for lunch, in which he has a small garage apartment with a a bed, shower, cable tv, and air condition to retreat to. I even have a contractor come put out and set up the largest tent you have ever seen, so that he doesn't ever have to work in the sun. It will take him about 1 year to complete the work. I offer that once the job is done, I'll even let his family come play in the pool once a week for the next year. He has arguably the best work conditions he will ever come across in his lifetime. This job will definitely be a pleasure for him, and he will gain an amazing amount of strength, experience, and skill for having done so. At the same time, he has to sign a contract agreeing that he will not work any other job during this time period.

Should I pay him? Originally Posted by YummyMarie

Hell no.

Hell no. Originally Posted by pyramider

What if he works with his taint exposed everyday?