i believe you can come together and be friends. Which is why I posted the thread for you to come to our events to meet us. But you didn't.I disagree...... "HUNDREDS" more is way more than those that actually step forward.
what you failed to realize is that instead of being ok with the few who participate or the 22 ladies you are proud of, you can rally HUNDREDS more if you went about things differently. I don't believe you don't see that. But hey, you've been who you are for 14 years and it's worked perfect for you right?
Is it really too late to make a difference? Never too late! Originally Posted by newcumerz
Every year people pledge... Every year people post... and that's where it stops for many.
People that actually DO..... are much fewer.....
It's easy to promise and harder to deliver.....
I do not go to CK;s events for a reason I have stated elsewhere and you seem to not be aware of.
I do NOT believe in the principle that a man's status as a hobbyist is determined by the ladies that will vouch for him. This community has many avenues of hobbying that include AMPs, Streets, Agencies and SBs..... It is unfortunate but the few Indies or Agency ladies I see are not ones I care for others to know actually see me.
For obvious reasons, I do not disclose to anyone who I see from the provider community. When someone is known to have seen me or been out with me they tend to receive threatening PMs and emails from other members as well as ladies.
I quit reviewing long ago for that reason. A handful of people try to make anyone associated with me uncomfortable through bullying, One lady in Austin recently lost a client simply because she posted support for something I said ion a thread in a manner that he felt indicated we knew each other...
CK caters to the ladies concerns. I understand that and do not ask for any changes to be made.
I also organize events but invites are extended where vouching is via other hobbyists. We utilize a different principle for the events I have put on.
If you wish to meet me I may announce a time and place down there for anyone that would like to know more about the fundraiser or anything else to drop by.
One of the ladies down there has offered to get involved and run point..... If it comes together I think many will be very very surprised.