I've been trying to figure out this attitude. It is actually foreign to me but it shouldn't be.
I was a year younger than my friends, in my class, and the smallest. I grew 4 inches my senior year and another after graduating. I had the worst Napoleon complex, ever. I had to get four stitches in my tongue smarting off to a guy that had forty pounds on me. My dad signed me up for golden gloves. He was afraid someone was going to kill me.
The military cured me. There was only one guy in my unit that was over 5'10". The big guys were too slow, couldn't carry as much weight, relative to their size, didn't tolerate the heat and were lousy when it came to the long distance runs, pull ups and especially the obstacle course. They also made too much noise, in the jungle, and made big targets.
I guess this is a product of feminism/gender equality. It didn't occur to me that girls could have Napoleon complexes. Feeling inferior due to your size is a disorder. There is no upside to this.
Sadly, I'm sure that there are women, on here, that have been on the wrong side of confrontation with some man that is twice their size. I can't think of anything much more despicable than men beating on women. I'm sure that there are some that will testify to what I am saying. Having this, "I'm going to kick your ass" attitude is going to get you hurt.
I'm old school. I open doors, pull out a chair and offer my coat when it's cold. Not everyone was raised this way.