Explicit PM's

So DM, How should men approach a provider to ask or confirm what activities are offered besides reading reviews and sending an explicit pm?

Some guys (read:many) lie in their reviews, so just "doing research" doesn't always cut it. If a newbie gets explicit I can understand you ladies feeling the way you do. But for well established, "verified hobbiests", I think a little written fore play goes a long way to make for a great session together, adds to the excitement and I won't have to waste my money on a provider that won't do what I want.

And just to add....it's not that difficult for a fucktard to research a providers reviews and know what activities "they do" or "don't do" before contacting them..... Originally Posted by Russ38

That's the problem...MOST don't want to take time and do the research. Just like screening someone new. They contact you and ask if your available and then when you ask for the screening info...they never contact you back. FUCKTARDS!!!

See, your showcase explains everything in a detailed way and easy to follow rules. Not every girls shows clarity. So it's just odd for them to say don't discuss details. Originally Posted by Stromprophet

Too discuss this further.....I had a very detailed showcase. I would still get questions asking me things that were right there in black & white on my showcase. It's very frustrating how we as providers take our time in having a website or a nice detailed showcase to make it easier and faster to book a visit with us and you guys still want to make it difficult for yourselves.

That's the problem...MOST don't want to take time and do the research. Just like screening someone new. They contact you and ask if your available and then when you ask for the screening info...they never contact you back. FUCKTARDS!!! Originally Posted by Cyndi Lyn

There is nothing wrong with research. However, it doesn't always mean that a guy should expect to get the same experience or activities offered. Therefore, i don't see anything wrong politely asking a provider if they do a specific activity. To me, Eccie is a site to exchange information. So why do providers take offense when asked about service they potentially offer?

Too discuss this further.....I had a very detailed showcase. I would still get questions asking me things that were right there in black & white on my showcase. It's very frustrating how we as providers take our time in having a website or a nice detailed showcase to make it easier and faster to book a visit with us and you guys still want to make it difficult for yourselves. Originally Posted by Cyndi Lyn

You have a valid point and this may not apply specifically to you but some providers are too detailed in their showcase to where certain information is vague or unclear. It makes sense to you because it's your showcase but from the outside looking in, guys can get confused or interpret it a different way. Of course you should post information that will capture the audience attention but too much info can be overwhelming. Just be specific and get to the point.

There is nothing wrong with research. However, it doesn't always mean that a guy should expect to get the same experience or activities offered. Therefore, i don't see anything wrong politely asking a provider if they do a specific activity. To me, Eccie is a site to exchange information. So why do providers take offense when asked about service they potentially offer? Originally Posted by nascobar21

I can't answer for ALL providers as we are different and yes we have different experiences with different friends. My main issue is your guys know you need to go through screening if we have never see you before. So, why not get that out of the way in the first PM you send us? Our first visit is basically getting to know each other. Second and third time around will ALWAYS be better. I may do something for one that I don't do for another. So, after I have seen you...there is a lot of times I will ask you, "What do you have a taste for?" We are all adults....BEING RESPECTFUL GOES ALONG WAY AND MIGHT GET YOU MORE THEN YOU THOUGHT YOU WOULD GET.

You have a valid point and this may not apply specifically to you but some providers are too detailed in their showcase to where certain information is vague or unclear. It makes sense to you because it's your showcase but from the outside looking in, guys can get confused or interpret it a different way. Of course you should post information that will capture the audience attention but too much info can be overwhelming. Just be specific and get to the point. Originally Posted by nascobar21

I can agree with this. It may makes sense to us as too what we are writing but not too others. If you don't tell us how confused you are, then we can't fix the problem. I'm always updating my showcase and website to hopefully make it user friendly too all. But if you don't let me know that you are confused, then I can't fix it.

Some guys are dumb as a bag of hammers. If you cant figure out what the activities are (PA or no PA) from reviews, showcases, and reading between the lines then you surely do need a pussy Nazi to cut you off. You don't deserve it.

Thanks for the notice of what bugs you, DM.

. . . But you don't really need to sugar coat it for us!


Originally Posted by Fast Gunn

Oh yes I do or some people will get ib there sniffle box

Yeah, I've tried to check reviews to see what a girl does and what the price is. Not always the same though, experiences vary at times. Though that has been a pretty good source of information.

It's part of who I am. I like a degree of certainty haha. Originally Posted by Stromprophet

Search is your friend read reviews check ad boards read showcase... You will get a very good idea

Too discuss this further.....I had a very detailed showcase. I would still get questions asking me things that were right there in black & white on my showcase. It's very frustrating how we as providers take our time in having a website or a nice detailed showcase to make it easier and faster to book a visit with us and you guys still want to make it difficult for yourselves. Originally Posted by Cyndi Lyn

I Think Im In Love +10000

Gals being vague on activities up front helps the upselling during.

Some guys are dumb as a bag of hammers. If you cant figure out what the activities are (PA or no PA) from reviews, showcases, and reading between the lines then you surely do need a pussy Nazi to cut you off. You don't deserve it. Originally Posted by Phil A.Cheaux

THIS!

Research is your best friend. It definitely became mine.

Asking explicit questions is a no-no.

Always remember this hobby will ALWAYS be YMMV.