Damn, finally someone says what I feel!! Some people's reviews truly leave me baffled and at a loss for words!! As another legitimate hooker, I also feel like some men give a yes review out of fear of repercussions of what might happen to them, such as blackmail or being black listed. I also feel like some newbies are needing a reference and they know a no review would probably lead them to not be able to use that provider. Those are just my two cents for what it's worth.
Originally Posted by Emmie
I know just what you are saying. Personally, I do not like a lady to feel bad; even if I am disappointed with her personally, I would not give a negative review provided she tried, or even joyfully attempted to provide good service.
For example: I do not appreciate tattoos, especially if someone has a lot of visible ones. But, most of the younger ladies have them today. I may not understand it, but my prejudice is my problem and I try to make the most of it. I have learned to ignore the small ones. In this example, I would rate the lady on her personality and her desire to make me happy. Even if one discovers a tattoo that was highly offensive. The woman should be rated on herself.
With the same reasoning: I enjoy spending time and conversation with a very intelligent lady. Should an encounter reveal that the lady is less than desired personally, a negative recommendation would not be warranted; it is my personal preference and should not have an effect on the evaluation.
The above being said, should there be problems with safety, cleanliness or negative attitude (you can make a long list if you like) that affected the encounter; a negative review would serve to advise others of a problem that they may wish to avoid.
The flip side of this question is the unjustified negative reviews I have seen by some guys who have the obvious intention of harming a ladies business. Just because the lady might not have met his demands for a perfect encounter is not a reason to attack her in a public discussion.
These ladies are people with emotions in a difficult business. With all but the most hardened, it is helpful to at least try to get to know them as a person. Recently I met a young lady for the first time. We had started to relax, when I asked if she would tell me about her baby. Hold the train while she brings out the pictures and talks about the most important thing in
her life. That didn't change the encounter for me. After all: "Sex is between the ears as well as between the legs." - H.L. Newbold
JR