My first NC/NS ever: Gee, thanks, Julia Suzette

So are you hoping for her to contact you about this so you can get a reduced rate session as part of a make up?
... Originally Posted by Wakeup

NOPE. I'd never be confidant enough to schedule with her again.

Or are you hoping that she'll contact you, give you a make up sesion and then you can write a glowing review to help her on the long road to recovering her supposedly mangled reputation?... Originally Posted by Wakeup

NOPE. See above.

How about you're trying to criticize her enough that she'll realize she's been a horrible excuse for a provider and will make a public post apologizing to the Houston hobby community for her callousness and offering a promise to correct her heathen ways?... Originally Posted by Wakeup

NAAAH. It's become abundantly clear she could care less what individual johns think about her ... just as long as there are sufficient numbers of other johns willing to keep feeding her benjamins.

You made your point with your first alert post. You'll feel a lot better if you just cross her off your list and move on...getting this worked up over your first NC/NS isn't worth it... Originally Posted by Wakeup

I feel great, but what business is it of yours how I feel? I don't give a fuck how you feel. What matters to me is to be justifiably able to continue having high expectations for the escorts I choose. You might disagree, but I am of the opinion that tolerance for shitty treatment sends to other escorts the message that it is acceptable behavior. You can choose to accept it if you like; apparently you do, but I choose to do everything within standards of decency to shut that shit down, for the good of all you other johns.

Here, Wakeup...read, or re-read this:

"Julia, if you're reading this...I have no interest in punishing you. My interest is in improving you. Even though we will never meet, your atrocious behavior lowers the bar, lowers expectations for other escorts, contaminates the pool. I won't tolerate your poisoning our well. Up your game or go away, I could care less which, but by no means should you continue to treat your customers like shit."

What's your next problem, Wakeup?

Wake up just so worry that you might be wasting your valuable time so he invested whole lot of his time to explain you and make you understand. What a great friend....... he does little sound like a mommy.

What's your next problem, Wakeup? Originally Posted by Don T. Lukbak

I don't have any problem with this thread.

You made your OP at 10:00 AM on 11/16.
You followed up at 06:22 PM on 11/16 that you had heard "nary a peep out of Miss Julia" in response to your OP.
At 10:08 PM on 11/16 you posted that "really it ain't no thang, not like some horrible shit befell me" and it seemed like you were over it.
And then at 01:35 PM on 11/17 you turned completely, 180 degrees around and said that you've "yet to hear fucking word one from her almost 72 hours after her absolute failure."
Following that up at 09:42 PM yesterday saying that as you "approach H-Hour + 100 I've heard not a peep from her."
Today, at 11:41 AM you comment that she's "every bit as much a problem provider as McKenzie was", and said you were happy that P411 had responded that "continued irresponsible behavior by Julia Suzette will not be compatible with continued P411 membership"

I guess I stand corrected...pardon me for assuming that you were the one who had the problem...

I don't have any problem with this thread.... Originally Posted by Wakeup

You fooled the fuck outta me then.

You made your OP at 10:00 AM on 11/16.
You followed up at 06:22 PM on 11/16 that you had heard "nary a peep out of Miss Julia" in response to your OP.
At 10:08 PM on 11/16 you posted that "really it ain't no thang, not like some horrible shit befell me" and it seemed like you were over it.
And then at 01:35 PM on 11/17 you turned completely, 180 degrees around and said that you've "yet to hear fucking word one from her almost 72 hours after her absolute failure."
Following that up at 09:42 PM yesterday saying that as you "approach H-Hour + 100 I've heard not a peep from her."... Originally Posted by Wakeup

What you describe is the sequence of my dawning realization, as more and more mutts chimed in, that her NS/NC with me was not merely the occasional slip through the cracks that might befall an ill-starred monger because of the carelessness of the hooker, it was one of many failures that bespeaks the systemization of a business plan with contempt for customers as the central piece. Unlike you, apparently, I'm unable to perfectly understand matters like this instantaneously; my understanding - if it grows at all - grows gradually. Wakeup, gradually is just another word for slowly.

Today, at 11:41 AM you comment that she's "every bit as much a problem provider as McKenzie was", and said you were happy that P411 had responded that "continued irresponsible behavior by Julia Suzette will not be compatible with continued P411 membership"... Originally Posted by Wakeup

Stop lying. I never said it made me happy (about her plight). I said I was gratified (that P411 was going to hold her accountable). I like accountability. You?

I guess I stand corrected...pardon me for assuming that you were the one who had the problem... Originally Posted by Wakeup

OK, you're pardoned. But you've become tedious to me. Not challenging. Tedious. Tiresome. The solution to being repeatedly bored is the ignore button. I hope you will use it on my handle, make it reciprocal. Adios.

What you describe is the sequence of my dawning realization, as more and more mutts chimed in, that her NS/NC with me was not merely the occasional slip through the cracks that might befall an ill-starred monger because of the carelessness of the hooker, it was one of many failures that bespeaks a business plan with contempt for customers as the central piece. Originally Posted by Don T. Lukbak

More and more mutts chimed in? You mean in the 15 hours and 27 minutes between your "it's no big deal" post and your "bitch pulled an absolute fail" post where one person said they got NC/NS, one person said he had a session with her, and another said he a very enjoyable session with her? Again, pardon me for not seeing your logic there...makes perfect sense to me.

Stop lying. I never said it made me happy (about her plight). I said I was gratified (that P411 was going to hold her accountable). Originally Posted by Don T. Lukbak

http://thesaurus.com/browse/gratified

The solution to being repeatedly bored is the ignore button. I hope you will use it on my handle, make it reciprocal. Originally Posted by Don T. Lukbak

So you've ignored me huh? Good luck with that...let me know how it works out for you...

One more time for the short bus kids...getting this worked up over a NC/NS is never good, and continued posting about her need to contact someone about it is just pissing into the wind, you get wet and the onlookers get a laugh...

P.S.-Don, I would never ignore you, as I wouldn't ignore anyone. You provide endless hours of entertainment for me, and I'm sure you won't disappoint since someone is coming back to town soon. I'm looking forward to another meltdown...

Five years and never nc/ns you are pretty lucky, hell that happened too me 5 or 6 times this year.

Her Houston provider ad popped up yesterday morning, followed a few minutes later by an email. We had previously been set for a date in early October, but she canceled on a timely basis, citing an excuse along the lines of "Uncle Claude forgot to shut the cattle gap so I was late at the airport from chasing them escaped calves". No big deal, just an unexpected opportunity for me to check out Classy Kimberly. Surprised by joy, I was deprived of nothing by her failure to arrive in Houston. Kimberly is a treasure.

Later in October Julia Suzette emailed me about a planned makeup sortie to Houston, but this was during Dayana's visit and I had 2-hours scheduled with her on consecutive nights during her stay...Thank goodness I resisted Julia's entreaties to see her one of those nights rather than Dayana; that would have been my all-time stupidest decision because she allegedly started illing and NS/NC'd Snorkle and other fine fellows. I bought the illing part, and conveniently ignored her lack of even a courtesy call to those stranded mongers. I wonder whether Snorkle et al were scheduled for one or multi-hours.

Which brings us to her yesterday's email: "Third time's the charm", or something similar, it began....hopes she hadn't burnt bridges by her serial clusterfucks got expressed...Despite being drained by a strenuous weekend with an old friend in another city, then driving back to Houston to get re-drained on Sunday night, I agreed to book a 1-hour session just because her pics are hot and because she claims to provide a compelling menu. Five e-mails were exchanged, each way. I sniffed a tell in her third email when she confirmed the time, but questioned the duration..."7 this evening it is...just one hour?" My hairs stood on end when I saw that pointed question.

Regardless, I trundled over to the lobby of her hotel and S.O.P. called at 5 minutes before...no answer. Called again on the hour...no answer. And again at 5 minutes past the hour...no answer, at which point I hauled ass. Called a couple of additional times en route back to Hqs, no answer, nor did she call or email.

Well, hell, I tried to keep reminding myself of my inordinately good luck in never having experienced a "joy" like that during my entire 5+ years of this "hobby" nonsense...sure, a time or two little Ashley and I had miscommunications when we had to meet at the pizza joint in BFE...but I never left the house until I was certain the trip would not be wasted and nothing in little Ashley's behavior with me rose to the level of cold-blooded contempt shown by this "classic" NC/NS.

I had assessed Julia Suzette to be of good character. I erred. Right or wrong, the lesson I took from this episode is this: boys, when you book an hour with Julia Suzette, you must never forget you are flying on standby.

Thus ends the sad saga of unkie donny and julia suzette.

But my lucky streak continues:

Back at hqs, stuffed to the gills with V, circling confused like a bewildered dog finding a place to lay down, and contemplating slamming the car door on Little Elvis to facilitate laying down, I fired up my computer in order to post about my Joys(not) With Julia....but I got sidetracked by pics of this pretty girl...Barbie708. I never met her, had swerved away because of rumors of management and the cbj curse, but had lately heard reassuring things about her and called. Left a vm. She called back immediately, I explained the circumstances, fired her my P411, and 20 minutes later was at her inkall.

Well, I had forgotten about the cbj part and boogered a bit when she wrapped Elvis before kissing him...but, so what...other than that, which in and of itself is not a big deal to me, I was very extremely happy at how the night turned out for me. I gotta tell you, boys, Barbie708 is an under-rated treasure...she's marching directly into my starting rotation.

Viva Barbie 708!

Julia WHO? Originally Posted by Don T. Lukbak

Sorry this happened to you, some ladies just dont know how to treat the guys! If you were mine you'd always be treated like a king...

Five years and never nc/ns you are pretty lucky, hell that happened too me 5 or 6 times this year. Originally Posted by macksback

You're absolutely right, luck was on my side. But I was also very careful to avoid known flakes. When I did my original research on JS back in September there was next to no intel available on her, and what was available was so favorable it could have come from a publicist for all I know.

I think it's safe to say that the information void regarding Ms. Suzette is no longer a problem. There's even a dawning in Dallas:

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...=julia+suzette

She's a fine talker, though...them emails she sends had my nose all open. If only she walked that talk!

I saw her twice in October in Dallas, with only a few minor problems.

On the first visit, she missed my first appointment request which I sent about a week in advance. She quickly responded to my second request a few days later and I saw the following Friday (10/01).

On the second visit, her and I agreed to an appointment on a Saturday morning, but she failed to confirm the appointment the night before. Essentially, she canceled that appointment by default. However, her and I exchanged e-mails that afternoon, and I was able to see her Sunday afternoon instead. (Aside: She had an overnight visit scheduled with another client the night before my original Saturday morning appointment.)

Both of my appointments were for 2 hours.

If you "have" to use the ignore feature very often it says as much about you as it does about those you are ignoring, I'm just sayin'

I don't even ignore Carkiddo or any of Absolute's board personas. Don T. Lukback you are a very funny guy and as I stated earlier this was a great thread, but as someone that's been NS/NC'd more in a week that you have in your career it might be time to let this one go.

The very thing that makes some ladies a little flaky, can also be world rocking. But what would I know about any of this thing of ours. I don't mind the disappointments as long as the brighter moments are more memorable. I accept the risk of dealing with flakes and revel in the moment. Sometimes not having a plan is the very best plan.

no shit. Complaining to Gina because you got NCNS'd?

It's just pussy....

no shit. Complaining to Gina because you got NCNS'd? Originally Posted by cpi3000

Not even close. That evening turned out plenty excellent for me.

We're fortunate in having a resource like P411, where the owner has an interest in quality assurance. Or maybe you prefer Eros. Just so you know, my email to P411 was in the form of a question: I sent the link to this thread and asked if this was the sort of thing they would have an interest in knowing. Their response was along the lines of "you betcha we need to know".

Do you really have a problem with that?

Maybe next time you might want to consider reading the entire thread before performing yet another drive-by fool-atio. Or not.

If you "have" to use the ignore feature very often it says as much about you as it does about those you are ignoring, I'm just sayin' Originally Posted by Wayward

I didn't "have" to do a damn thing. I chose to use the ignore feature as an antidote to tedium. I already waste too much time on this crap. Enough's enough.

Uncle Donny if this is your first NCNS, go buy a lottery ticket!!! you are one lucky SOB!!

NO ONE should EVER stand Don up. He's too nice and doesn't deserve it!