New SB...Looking for SD

I think most of us can agree on a couple things:

--Ads don't belong in this forum
--Many of us would like to see the mods move them
--Discussing the topic of SB/SD is probably fine in here

I would agree with Roxane that she was talking about the topic, and directly addressing the question posed, and I think it was a worthwhile post. The fact that AltC seems to differ not withstanding. Originally Posted by Old-T

Actually Old T I blame you. Until you started trying to discuss the topic in post 14 everyone was not so politely telling the OP she was lost.

If you or Roxane or anyone else want to discuss any aspect of SB/SD by all means start a thread and do so. Don't feed the trolls (or in this case advertisers or simply lost people) by turning their ads or ISOs into discussion threads.

I'm not a mod. All of the above is simply my not so humble opinion.

You are far from the first to blame me for something.

I look at it differently: I tried to redirect the conversation away from her ad and onto a related but different aspect.

So a whore meets a trick and they fall in love and are getting married?

In what way is she a Sugar Baby or him a Sugardaddy?

He sounds more like a sucker for marrying a whore that is looking at him like an ATM....

So a whore meets a trick and they fall in love and are getting married?

In what way is she a Sugar Baby or him a Sugardaddy?

He sounds more like a sucker for marrying a whore that is looking at him like an ATM.... Originally Posted by Whispers

OH MY...
so I wpuld think the question was in the right forum but what do I know.
So I though a SB was a hot spoiled young thang and a SD was an Old married rich thang and she was at his beckon call and his wallet was pretty much at her beckon call!
How far away from the truth am I???

I think we already established that there are many variations of sb/SD relationships. We can't all possibly fit in the same box. And it wasn't his money that hooked me. Don't project your experiences on mine. Like i said originally, I didn't make a sugar baby iso thread. So, simmer down. I'm not arguing here.

So I though a SB was a hot spoiled young thang and a SD was an Old married rich thang and she was at his beckon call and his wallet was pretty much at her beckon call!
How far away from the truth am I??? Originally Posted by Majichands

Well I'm not old or married but I do have a SB and she is not spoiled, more of she is working and making ends meet and what I give her is just that little bit extra so she can do stuff with her friends or maybe buy herself a purse that she couldn't afford otherwise. My wallet is not at her beckon call but she is always there when I call her. She gets a monthly allowance and whatever else I want to spend on her but she only gets that.

My Mind was on like an Anna Nichole smith she was a SB before he married her RIGHT!?

Who said an SD has to be very old or married? And who says once a sb you have to stay one?

Like I said my mind was on Anna Nocole Smith and the very old man she married.. guess he wasnt married . When I was younger I was on one of those suger daddy .com site it wasnt for me I am not that summissive .. Any way 90% of the men who contacted me where married and most old . That was my experience. But that was 15 years ago so....

OH MY...
so I wpuld think the question was in the right forum but what do I know.
So I though a SB was a hot spoiled young thang and a SD was an Old married rich thang and she was at his beckon call and his wallet was pretty much at her beckon call!
How far away from the truth am I??? Originally Posted by Majichands

Quite a ways. Most whores never understand. Over all the years and all the boards I can only think of one that did.

Like I said my mind was on Anna Nocole Smith and the very old man she married.. guess he wasnt married . When I was younger I was on one of those suger daddy .com site it wasnt for me I am not that summissive .. Any way 90% of the men who contacted me where married and most old . That was my experience. But that was 15 years ago so.... Originally Posted by Majichands

We also like educated girls that either go to school, work or both.

We are not looking to be your sole support.

Stop watching MTV and lifetime and you may learn something

OH MY...
so I wpuld think the question was in the right forum but what do I know.
So I though a SB was a hot spoiled young thang and a SD was an Old married rich thang and she was at his beckon call and his wallet was pretty much at her beckon call!
How far away from the truth am I??? Originally Posted by Majichands

So far from the truth I can see why you got into hooking.
You are all about the money so keep making that hour dollar sweetheart

What you said disgusts me.

We also like educated girls that either go to school, work or both.

We are not looking to be your sole support.

Stop watching MTV and lifetime and you may learn something Originally Posted by Gotyour6

Why do you insist on speaking for everyone?
The man that retired me obviously had more requirements than just sexual ones. You assume an escort becomes one because she lacks an education or marketable skills. While I'll agree the masses here may fit the bill, that most definitely doesn't apply to the most successful escorts who provide intellectual and sexual stimulus. Are many of these escorts fooling themselves to think they have these skills? Well of course. And so more than likely no one will sb them.
To your second statement. That's your situation. Not every mans. My Daddy is more than happy to be my sole support. But I wasn't exactly in need when he met me. I own my home, I own my cars, I have savings. He bought me a small business that requires minimal time for me to manage. That income is mine to use as i like. Anything else, i.e. monthly bills, household bills, travel, large expenses are handled by him. What's important to him is that I'm happy. That I get to be a stay at home mom to my children, be involved in their activities, keep our home clean and continue decorating it. That i get to lunch with my girlfriends. That dinner is creative ( former chef) and ready when he comes home. I'm his muse and he treats my satisfaction as a measure of his success as my Man. I treat him like a king. It's our dynamic. There are many men that prefer to be their woman's focus and have no need for the extra income.
But with that said , I know I'm of the few.

Thing is, the relationship you described doesn't in anyway fit the SB description for over 99 percent of SDs.
Doesn't matter if you agree or not!

And someone else can have the pleasure of labeling what you described....

Simmer down lol, don't you exclamation point me. Read the last line where i said i know i'm of the few. But thanks, yes that's my point. We don't all conform to the exact same dynamics. The only real one is financial support from a man to a woman. What's expected for this, the amount and whether real feelings are involved don't define anything except variances.
Until I'm actually a wife I can't see why SB doesn't apply to me. Have watched plenty of RW friends get engaged, don't know any of them who were financially supported from day one of meeting their fella.