I bet you owe the lady an apology but will be too much of a lot of things and not see it!
Originally Posted by thebuffmantraples
Who, Goddess?
No apology to Goddess. She just made a mistake about posting an alert on a guy with a NS. My response to her alert was that the alert should be on her from the information she provided.
The attitude that the guy was at fault is incomprehensible.
I will listen to your reasoning concerning how the guy was a fault. Her tirade against him is reason alone not to see her.
My reasoning is that she gave him reason to err on the side of caution and he did not show up for the appointment.
At the first sign that something is not right, both parties should walk alway and not have any bad feelings about it.
Just her message commenting about a NS give me a bad feeling in my gut.
Both the ladies and the guys should trust their gut. It is not worth the risk to only listen to your little head. Most of the time when my gut sounds off about a lady, it is because of her attitude that says slow down and listen carefully. Some, of these ladies are just not worth the trouble, and they show it in many ways.
How can any person, male or female, just not pay attention to the point that he/she gets robbed, beaten, or worse. The people who do this to others invariably give off negative signals. Try to read the other person's verbal signals and body language.
In the same thought: some people, ladies and men, have a knack for putting the other person at ease. It doesn't take much, just a little consideration and kindness. This endeavor is suppose to be fun for both parties. If it is just getting your rocks off; save your money and go set on the toilet and empty your prostate; or does one only think about using a woman as a toilet? How do those guys who do that get treated in return?
But then, maybe some guys enjoy the thrill of danger more than the pleasure of another person's company? I want to always enjoy the company of the woman I am with.
To each his own.
If you know the enemy and you know yourself, your victory will not stand in doubt; if you know Heaven and you know Earth, you may make your victory complete.
Sun Tzu, The Art of War
JR